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How can I make my husband be more passionate?

My husband and I have only been married for 6 years and I feel so passionate and always do romantic things to try to keep our marriage spicy. Sometimes I just want to rip his clothes off and have my way with him. Unfortunately, I can't seem to do anything that makes him feel the same way. What should I do?

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Read together the book " his needs , her needs" maybe there is an emotional need of his that you're not meeting. Most often the need that women don't address is the recreational companionship. When you guys are spending time doing things you both enjoy, he will fulfill your need for passion. Also just ask him. He needs to know that you have a need that he is not addressing , that is how affairs start

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I think you are focusing too much on what he is not. We are all different such that we respond and show our affection in different ways. Chances are that he is passionate but not in the way you want him to. I identify the little things he does that show affection and use them you can also try talking to him about how you feel.

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Read the 5 love languages. It's an amazing book on how to show love. Maybe if he's feeling extra loved he might be more inclined to have his way with you. ;)

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I've got a similar issue in my life. Some people are more passionate/ sexual in nature whereas those feelings may not fade over time within us but do in our partners. Although sometimes depressing for me, I still love her dearly

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I could say the same thing. This is what love is. To live your spouse even when she does meet all your emotional needs
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