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I need help with my best friend .

so my best friend Is dating a total jerk ! and he gets drunk all the time smokes a lot and has no respect for her . he makes her feel very insecure and unwanted which makes her feel the need to cut herself . a few months ago she tried to kill herself and I'm realy worried for her . she dosnt have a close relationship with her mom . her mom dosnt Evan know she has a boyfriend . I've tried talking to her so many times ! but nothing is working . please help it means a lot ,

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You need to talk to your school councilor and tell her the whole situation, using your best friends name, but probably no need to use her boyfriends name. Anyway, she will probably hate you for it. It IS Necessary though, she needs help. She will really appreciate it after a while though. Your councilor will be able to help guide her and maybe reccomend a phyciatrist to see outside of school. If you love your best friend, you will do this. Please, oh Please, if you have any Questions whatso ever dont hesitate to ask. No Question is stupid when it comes to this. Good luck
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Thankyou so much this means a lot ! Words can't Thankyou enough . <3
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Your welcome Little, I wish you the best
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You need to tell the dude, that he best start treating her right, or I will be after him, that's horrible to treat a girl wrong, like I would never even think of doing anything like that, I treat people how I would want to be treated, but yeah, he needs a wake up call. if you know what I mean by that.

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Oh trust me I've talked to him he is the biggest idiot out . He only gives a crap about the label I hate him so much ! He threatened to hurt me so that's not working either but Thankyou any way . Need all the help I can get .
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Since your friend proves that she is not comfortable with the relationship, it is prudent for her to get out of it now. There is a great difference between infatuation and love and so, this perhaps being her first relationship, she does not know how to get over it. You can also encourage her to be free with her mother and even share this with a counselor.

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Thankyou for your help and time means a lot .
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Yeah tell the councer

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explain to her that if she doesnt leave him shes gonna kill her self.oh u need to step in and tell him who's boss and in control grow a set and stand up for u and ur friendand so she doesnt kill her self.

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Yeah I've tried to explain so many times. But she thinks the relationship is fine when it can't get much worse . Thankyou for the time though .
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Let me guess ... there's no DAD in the picture? A Dad wouldn't allow his little girl to be treated like this. There are some situations where you shouldn't intervene ... this isn't one of them, get in there and save her before it's too late. His abuse will only escalate. You might be the only one who can do it.

*Little girl, face all black and blue,
but she knows better,
that's not the way a man should treat you,
but that's okay, she'll change her life tonight,
she's leaving him,
for a woman who will treat her right ...*

- Firehouse (Love Don't Care Who You Love)

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Nice Tony, can you see my green?
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I had the same problem with my best friend but she got so happy because I joined pandanda and she said I'm soooo sorry and now were friends again?

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