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How do I turn off this 'special needs' kid? (my closest friends are suffering the same problem and where ever i turn no one has answers!)

he is always staring at me. you may not think that this a bad, but if you ever meet this kid, you will hate him. every time he sees me he'll practically scream, HEY, *****! everyone stops talking and looks at me. my friends and I have to sit with him at lunch because no one is nice enough to let him sit with them, everyone hates him. he always is chewing with his mouth open and he keeps talking while he's chewing! Also, I have noticed that he never is looking at me, or anyone who is talking to him, if you are talking him, he will look at your boobs. also, He's always talking to you all up in your face. like three inches away!

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You can teach him some of the simple things like not talking while chewing. Do this in a calm manner and correct him when he repeats the same thing. Praise him for good behavior. Check out http://www.ehow.com/how_3511_teach-child-manners.html.

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two options, when your sitting with him, tell him EXACTLY what you wrote here, face first however start and end the convo on a positive not like look you are great but see you need to know that there are somethings which if you do can make you a better i'm not saying i'm perfect or anything but man seriously...look at me....and end the convo on a positive note stressing that you only want to help him...now it will take time for him to change but if you see he has initiative or at least trying to help him, if he doesn't listen to you just let it go, you will not be a bad person he is bad for treating you...who is trying to befriend him in an awful manner..i hope that helps...

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its just... when ever i tell him to chew with his mouth closed or to speak softer he just turns his head down and says "i'm not doin anythin, *****" and he has autism, its not like that isnt something you dont expect, but it is really frustrating. I think i have had a break through, though. in homeroom he always used to sit next to me and talk to me while im trying to listen to the announcements. now he usually sits in the front, with no one except his special teacher.
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