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I'm almost done with college and my professor has been flirting with me, or at least i think so.. How would i be able to tell for sure?

he asks me personal questions, know's I like him, and stares all the time. i on the other hand have been trying to avoid him to save myself from getting hurt. he seems to act confused when i do that. I'm just confused myself.

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This is a disaster waiting to happen. Politely ignore or skirt around personal stuff. Graduate with your dignity intact. Be curt, but polite. You really don't need this mess.

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I am thinking she wants the mess.
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I guess she is interested too.
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If she thinks it's good, WAIT until graduation, then if he's single.... Whatever..
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yeah, like bubbles said, what ev man!
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If you wanna be able to tell for sure, grab it. If it gets hard, he likes you.

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That's terrible advice. How many times has a young girl grabbed you and you didn't get hard?
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I don't let young girls grab me, that's perverted. 18 or older for me. Remember, 16 years in the bed will get you 20 behind bars.
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he is a stalker who come and do evil things to you and then kill you do not talk t him.

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It depends how old he is. If u know or think u know u should tell us and more people will answer 'cause they know more info.

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I'll be 24, he's in his late 30's. Well he stares a lot. always smiles and tries to start conversations with me. He lives near me so asks me where i go out and things like that.He let me take a test home, of course I thanked him but I wouldn't let him do that again. I like getting good grades because of my own personal actions, i hate hand outs. He's asked me things such as information dealing with my boyfriend, and what street I lived on, i didn't find that odd because he lives about 2 minutes away from me :/ during movies in class he's always watching me too, and i caught him a few times, at first i saw him staring from the corner of my eyes, i would look and he would just hurry up and look away. that's a few, there's just so many... he also started using smiley faces in my emails, which he never has done before. sorry if thats long.
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If i were you i would go up to him and say,"Stop staring i don't like it so stop NOW!!!!!!!!!"
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Just ignore him and when collage is up, like the last day of school go up to his face and say "PLAYER!"

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by the way they are acting around you

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candybar

Don't even go there.

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Do they have a history of doing this with other students? Are they married? Stay away!!

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i haven't heard anyone else saying he was like that before. that im aware of anyway.
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Don't put your future or his in jeopardy! Hold off on the flirting until you are done with college. Just slip it in that you want to concentrate on FINISHING college right now. Then maybe it will develop more afterwards and that's ok. If you both like eachother you can just be friendly for now and wait. Age doesn't matter, but you don't want people to think you did a good job because your messing around with him.

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Do you like him ?

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I like him a lot... i don't see that changing either. He also lives near me. haha
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If you like him then go for it. Make sure he is single and he is interested in a relationship.
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Avoid a relationship with anyone who has the ability to dictate your future or have control or access to your personal information.
Ex:
1. Professor / Teacher
2. Banker
3. Doctor
4. Cell phone Representative

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I never really looked at it this way. thanks lol
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Cops
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I like this! ( how do these guys get a date?) ; )
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Bubblious- they date people in the same profession or industry.
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Yeah, that makes sense flight, and a safe bet.
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Believe me when I tell you this: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE! Get your degree and get away from him.

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