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If your boyfriend says "i can do better than you i just dont because i love you" what is he trying say?

like idk what to think about this im really confused

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It is pretty confusing but I think he is trying to tell you that even though you might not be perfect he still loves you

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thank you
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He is playing mind games. That's a very hurtful statement that deserves to be called out. Would you say that to him?

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no of course not i would never tell him that..and i did call him out and he was like "whatever i didnt mean it like that" but when he said it he did hug me and said the loved me and gave me a kiss
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Your a girl?
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His saying he can do better than you is a BIG RED FLAG. He should be saying you can do better than him. Maybe you should confront him with this.

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i already did read the comment i put up on the one before yours
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Okay, I did. Sometimes when I'm typing a reply or comment, all the other current replies and comments are not yet visible on my screen, which was the case here.
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yeah i kno i wasnt trying to be an A$$ IM JUST REALLY HURT OVER THIS
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I did'nt think you were being an a--; just made my comment merely for the record. I hope things get much better for you two.
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That is a dick thing to say. That's like him saying "I'm better than you but I'm settling". I'm guessing this isn't the only problem in your relationship. Time to take a look and evaluate what you are doing. Good luck :)

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yeah you think.....i just i dont know how to approach him because he doesnt like talkin about things like this and i love him and i dont wanna see him go uhhhhh i hate life when it comes to this
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In my opinion, it is best to tell him how you feel about his statement. Remember, problems do not usually just go away on their own.
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He saying he better than you but he settles i say dump his ass now because if he really loved u he would have never said anything like that. I am 14 and i love my gf i say to her that she deserves better than me but she says that i could do better than her but i dnt think so i love her and thats that

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That's a really weird thing to say no matter how he meant it. It's cruel and degrading. So he thinks he can do better but he doesn't? Why? He's too lazy? Does he have narcissistic personality disorder?

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or maybe hes cheating on me but keeps me around because i get money??
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Cut him off financially. If he leaves, you have your answer.
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Please call him right now and break up! You do not need to be put down like this.

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