One thing that I always thought was awesome, was getting letters from my girl that she had sprayed her perfume on. It might sound corny, or even creepy, I dunno, but when you're surrounded by nothing but men for a long period of time, the scent of your woman can make things seem a whole lot better. That and of course visits, and acccepting his collect calls, lol. :)
Look you shouldn't be near a crowd like that something for 10 years look you shouldn't be supporting him at all what did he do that got him thrown in there in the first place idk but don't support him that should be the last thing you think about
follow your heart, my man is doing 5 and its hard but if u love him youll wait for him, i make sure to send a letter everyday so he always has one everyday and yes spray ur perfume on it they love that just ensure him your being faithful and will be waitin when hes done. If u dont think u can wait then leave him cause nothing is worse then leading a man on while hes behind bars!
follow your heart and some of these jerks don't understand some people go through a lot when they are younger to lead them in this kind of direction and just when they get on their feet is when they get put in jail.. i know because my bf had a rough child hood and joined with people that he thought would keep him together but it lead to stealing and stuff and he got out and now he is trying to change but couldn't pay his p.o. and he is looking at 5 years. just when he got a kid and a great oil field job they wouldn't wait so its depending on how she feels and if he did it now or was it in the past and for all of u saying move on what if y'all was in his place?? what would u want her to do?
look don't listen to any of these fools that say why support someone in jail or prison and so on whatever they don't understand how you feel ive been in your position and the best way to support him like other people have said write him letters go visit him if possible send him pictures they love to get letters so never think ur over doing it by sending one everyday i promise you that if you too are in love he will love it and it will let him know you are there for him encourage him tell him how good of a boyfriend he is and everything else keep things positive i hope this helps you and i know its hard but keep your head up and stay strong
i feel like if you are going to be there be there if your not let him know so he can except it but if your going to be there send letters,cards, barns and noble you can send books and magazines,cards scent on the letters and cards every holiday send him cards and if you going to be with him be faithful because that's big its not right to cheat so good luck to you im going through it to so hang in there everybody needs somebody and that's real talk
No matter what make sure you support him. He needs to know that you are there for him. Answer those calls when you can, write him letters every day, send cards, and remind him to laugh. It's tough on them in there as much as it is for you being out. Put your favorite perfume on those letters, and kiss a few with lipstick on. My guy loves it!