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Should i tell my ex that i still have feelings for him? Or should i just find someone new?

Okayy soo i went out with this guy for like two weeks and i fell inlove with him. When he broke up with me i was really broken x'[ and its been like 2 months and im still not over him. I went out with another guy after we broke up but i wasnt happy with him, all i had in mind was my ex. We still talk and my friends say we sometimes flirt but i dont really notice it. I tried to like some other cute guys but i know deep inside im still inlove with my ex :'/ my friends say i should go out with this one other guy but i dont think i'll be happy with him, im really inlove with my ex and idk how to stop it. should i tell him how i feel and ask for another chance or just find someone else and wait till i completely forget my him??

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He dumped you once. If you go crawling back and beg your way back into his life, you will never be a full partner, and you will never be treated as well as you deserve. Instead, do two things. 1) Keep yourself looking as good and healthy as possible. When he sees you, you want him to be filled with regret that he ever let you go. 2) Involve yourself with lots of people to take your mind off him. Don't try for a replacement. It's too soon; the rebound relationship would be really unfair to the new guy. Instead, join clubs, be athletic, date lots of guys in a light, friendly way. Keep your head so busy that your heart doesn't have time to mourn.

If there is any hope with this guy, he will come crawling back to you, professing that HE still has feelings for YOU. If you then choose to accept him back, you have vastly increased the chances of the relationship being successful.

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thanks. i think ur right (:
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Forgetting your ex is kind of impossible right now, I would advice that you try and work out your differences with your ex. Once you go back to his life, try as much as you can to avoid the issues that made you break up but try to venture in the world of real love and see how it goes about. Wish you all the best in retrieving what you were about to lose.

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What if he doesnt want to give me another chance though? :/
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Remember y u broke up in the first place. Rlly think about tht and remember how history repeats itself. Think it thru before u make a decision

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If he dumped you, you should move on to someone new(: Its shows how he didnt want you. Which is the reason to show how much better you deserve.:D

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No that will give him a big head to take advantage of you..........

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Get him back he obviously is still into you too!!

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some people tell me he's just using me because about 2 weeks after we broke up he started dating this girl and while they were dating he still would txt me and there was one time when he told me he still has feelings for me but it didnt really matter cuz he obviously had someone else and when they broke up he kept txting me more :o but i always see him flirr with this other girl in 6th pd. i think he's crushing on her :/
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This is what i think every time someone says that; too f-ing bad!

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