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Mahiah: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:34PM on 1/28/2012

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A man lies about having a kid and finally when the truth comes out he says he isn't proud of what he has done because he had his kid at a very young age and then tries to explain how unconditionally he loves his kid and that he'd love all his kids the same. I don't believe that he could actually love his kid the way a father naturally would if he's capable of lying about his kid, and then saying he's not proud of what he's done even if he later tries to justify it all. and if he had a planned baby with someone he was eventually in love with and married or was engaged to, I believe that the child would then mean more to him than the one he was able to lie about and say he wasn't proud of having. as a man... is my belief and take on it true? what are your thoughts?

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maverickhunterx: 1 year ago

Well Men are tricky( I should Know I'm One) If I were to Have a Baby I would Be very Happy, But If I were to have an Unplanned Baby at a young age I would Dislike the idea of that Baby being my kid. unplanned Babies are very Heart breaking to men, Thats why some men try to convince their women that the Baby isn't theirs. Some Men loves to be Single ( Not Me) and loves to Have intercourse with lots of women.When One of the women they were sleeping with says "they're Pregnant", a man needs to change their life. They need to change their appearance, their job, Quit school everything. That make Men Go Crazy. Usually when Men have children at a young age, they seem to Hate the first child, because He/she Forced Him to change their life. So Mahiah, I Have to Agree with your Belief.

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Mahiah: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thnks alot for answering. So do you think, even if he says that he will love all kids the same, that if him and I were to have a planned baby and continue our relationship, that our baby would mean more to him? Possibly love our baby more even if he says he would love them all the same?

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maverickhunterx: 1 year ago

I think He would Love the Planned Baby the Most because It wasn't born by Unplanned circumstances? Men would usually show the Planned baby more attention because He has his future set Unlike the Unplanned Baby.

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stb1953: 1 year ago via iPhone

a very good reason to always practice safe sex! the last thing this ole world needs is another unplanned and sadly, unwanted child!...

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chriseenorjzz: 1 year ago

In my opinion, this man lied because he thought that if he tells you the reality you might reject him. He might be in position to love his kid with all father's love since now there is no secret of what he did in past. One may be guilty of his past action especially when the actions seem to affect his future. This is why he says he is not proud of what he did.

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Mahiah: 1 year ago via iPhone

Very true. He didn't want to lose me. But either way, how could you love your child to the end of the world if losing me meant more than your childs existence?

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