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Should I Marry Before I'm Eighteen?

I Recently Posted on ask.com That My Best friend Wanted to marry me. The people Who answered Said I should Marry her. I Love Her But we never dated. Should I marry her because I love her?

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take your time, be engaged for as long as possible. and when you feel complete you will move to the next stage.

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My family and her family Wants us to get married at eighteen!
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ive been with my girl for 4 yrs, its your life do what you want. you have long time to make the decision
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No

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you think I should marry her!
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No he means no u don't need 2 marry her
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Uh. No.

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you think I should marry her!
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I don't think that that's a good idea maybe you should go out first get now her and spend time with her.

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Yes but no be engaged for several years that's what my neighbor is doin they are finishing collage then going to get settled then marry

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Noooooo.wait until your sure you found the right one

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no.

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No

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Marriage is a life long commitment. At least date first, get to know eachother better. That's what dating is for!

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No cause you don't want to ruin your life cause Maybey she's not the one

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No thats too young

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noooo

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How could you possibly want to get married before 18? Is there something you expect to gain from it? Does it make you feel older? Are you really going to be married but still each live with your respective parents? Do you ascribe to the "no sex before marriage" thing and just want to get laid?

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Go to college first (:
If you love eachother , you'll still love eachother in a few years (:

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Almost exactly no! Live your life, get an education, and then when the right time comes get married.

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Definitely not!

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Try dating first to see if you are compatible. Dont forget about your education as well!!

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TwilightGirl

If you truly love her... but go to college... accomplish something In life before you commit to some thing like that...

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No

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No, you have a long happy life ahead of you.

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No!!!

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Friends with benefits until you are ready is the way to go

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No...date first...marry after 22

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No way date her get to know her you'd be a idiot to just marry her then later regret it also your younger than 18 do in most states that's not legall

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If you have to ask that mean you not mature enough .
Wait few more years and be carefully if you have sex , you not ready for a child, be patience please wait

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No

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Absolutely don't! You need to learn yourself as an adult for about 5 yrs then you should truly know if marriage is for you. You should be focused on reaching dreams, experiencing life, and just the freedom to get up and go with no baggage!

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What's the rush? If you look at the average lifespan, say 70ish, what is two years to get to really know each other and make sure you are making the right decision. Enjoy dating, it's a really fun time in your life. It's a great way to enjoy each other without the stress of living together, paying bills, etc. Take your time, enjoy the process. Good luck :)

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Come on! No!

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no ,not until you feel comfortable and you really know the person because you still have a big life ahead of you

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Dont do it

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my mom married at 14 cause she got pregnant at 14 so do what you want

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In my opinion,its a BIG FAT NO!!!
you gotta live your life before you have responsibilities,kids,finance...etc.

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OH NO!!! married young and wish i would of give it time. at that age we dont really know ourselves. we grow and our actions and thinking change as we mature. enjoy life right now if u guys are meant to be it will happen in a couple of years.

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It's up too you but I would say no, just because you're still young and free have some fun , go to parties,Ect ect have some fun in life~ have a nice day :)

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If you truly love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her and you couldnt live without her then yes you should - if you do feel that way that is all that matters and all the details will work themselves out.

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No, you are too young. Have you been fully prepared to be a wife or a mother? Take your time and enjoy the youth. I think 24-28 is a proper age to get married

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suggestion don't only best you guys haven't dated yet so you wouldnt know if you two could be in a relationship or not..plus its allot easier to get married then it is to be divorced ...

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yessss!!!!!!!

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Why would u want 2
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No. Date her first and then decide. If you marry and end up being wrong for each other, it will be a lot harder to remain friends than if you date and decide it doesn't work. Just because you love each other doesn't mean you will be happy in marriage.

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Maybe you should ask your parents first because most states for anyone under 18 to get married you must have your parents sign papers.You can still be in love while in college and date her,then have a very nice wedding.

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watch the movie too young to marry, then think about it some more.

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dashea

No! I think it's okay to be engaged, I think that's too young, and that you most likely don't have much experience with the married life at that age, and you are be rushing things. Around that age period you havent even began your life yet.

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