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I'm really sad and need some help

well to start I don't have friends well I have friends but they leave me out so not many people to hang out with which makes me really sad cause all I want is a friend my school is not filled with friendly people I have no one and yes I do cry a lot the bright side I'll be going to high school in 5 months but I can't get through the five months help please pleeeaase

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As a retired teacher, 8th grade is the pits. The kids can be cruel to each other and lack respect. I will be your friend and say you are special and when God made you, he knew your being the day he created the world. You are so special and NEVER NEVER put yourself down because God does not make mistakes. You are loved....

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Hey don't be sad, its the same for me, your not alone! I'm sure there's good people at your school, find them. Appearance isn't everything. Just be yourself

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That happened to me, luckily I moved the next year :P. Were all here don't worry, talk to me if you need any help

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Find better friends and be happy because life is amazing and you only have one.

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I'll be ur friend : )
(if ur a believer, look to god)
I used to feel like tht but it will get better, I promise u
try to be more social : )
good luck!

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you are never alone.never.

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I really enjoy College life but after completion of my graduation all my friends were go outside & now I am also facing these type of problem

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High school will be great for making new friends. More people to choose from and most likely a few will be a lot like you. Think of these last 5 months as practice for making new friends. When we're sad everything can seem gloomy. If the kids at your school are obnoxious try digging into your homework, (I know this sounds really boring but being smart is very interesting and keeps you busy till you graduate), also maybe there's a teacher you can hangout with at lunch. Ask questions, be curious about what other people are doing. People love talking about themselves. And finally, have a good cry and then tell yourself to focus on something just for you. And when your sometime friends invite you to join them, do. In 5 months you'll get to reinvent yourself!

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Don't be sad! There is someone at school that wants to hang out with you and be your friend! You just haven't met them quite yet. I feel the same way. My "friends" that I used to hang out with during class and lunch won't even talk to me during a football game. I guess at this time and age, if you are popular or not matters. Don't let that get to you though. Just be yourself, get a good education, be nice, and look approachable. Always try and have a smile on your face even if you have to force it, ok? Now we've never met but you can think of me as a friend. You should pray to god and ask him to help you. :)

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long time a go I was port of the athletic team in school and we went on a trip - it turned out that all of use had matches at different times, therefore most of the time I spend alone. It make me angry. my teacher said: "you know, sooner or later, in life, you will need to learn to entertain yourself. Because no matter what happens you are going to have a lone times and you can't afford" to cry.

I know that that is easier said then done. But (from personal experience) if you concentrate in doing that you like doing, and be yourself, you are going to be happy. - Because at the end of the day even when you get your friends. The idea is that your do things with your friends that YOU also like.

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Maybe you are too shy or are not assertive enough. Sometimes the reasons you think you have few or no friends is different than what's actually the real reason. Have confidence in yourself, be available and approachable and you should make friends easily. And always hold your head up. Walk around like you own the place.

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I recently saw this advice and thought it was good: People will never remember what you said, but they will remember how you made them feel. Decide to become interested in others; ask questions and give people your full attention when they answer. You will be surprised that you will forget about your own predicament as you reach out to listen to others.

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I'm the same but I just sat down with myself and tried being more outgoing now I have several friends. All you got to do is get involved and try talking to people, they may be different then you think . Btw u a guy or girl?

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Well I don't want you to think that ugh this person but it the truth Jesus loves you so much and if u feel like that just pray to Jesus he is always there even if u can't see him u can still feel his present talk to a Pentecostal paster tell him to pray for you Jesus loves you no mater what u are or what u have done in your life look at this wed sit http://www.openbible.info/topics/jesus_love
U are not alone Jesus is waiting for u he he sacrificed him selfs for us and only us and that goes for every one hope this helps I will be praying even I don't know you I still worry about people that are sad and feel lonely in life pleas comment back if u want to feel happy loved cuz the grace of god made me care about people with the hart Brocken Jesus loves u don't forget Jesus is the best cure :)

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Ok that good well pry in the name of Jesus read the (holy bible) u can get it as an app and is free and got to a Pentecostal church a church that gets baptize in the name of Jesus and Pentecostal people are really nice people I dont know u but if u lived in san antonio tx I would be your friend but if u feel sad just talk to Jesus he is all ways there he knows every single thing about you he even knows how much hair u have on your head he love u so much that he gave his only son for who ever believes in hem will not perish but will have an ever long lasting life and I hope u fallow my advice and if u want to know more just tell me :) god bless you have a good day
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munameisyou, she said that she was joining hogh school in 5 months not leaving it. Wait is the lonely person a he or she?

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