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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

How do i nicely tell my man that if he doesnt start talking to me about our relationship its over?

weve been together 2 years, and im heart broken because i cant get him to talk about our relationship, or what the weather looks like outside :/

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TheJerry1559: 1 year ago

You Know, WTF? Why would you put up with this stuff?? 2 Years.. Dear, Dear, Dear,I guess it's time for a reality check. If he's not talking now, what would make you think he'd communicate in 50 years from now? Good luck!!!

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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

wishful thinking? :/

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TheJerry1559: 1 year ago

For you Precious? I hope so.

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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

well thank you!

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mwendeeez: 1 year ago

It is really unfortunate that you have been with this man and he says nothing about your relationship. However, approach him and start off the conversation, let him know how you feel and how his behavior affects your relationship.

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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

i do all the time :( and i just want to cry! ugh! i love this man more than anything, but he literally walks away when i try to talk to him. literally! thats why i wrote this!! ive approached him every way possible!

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jenn_190: 1 year ago via iPhone

If he doesn't talk to you after only 2 years, it's time to move on. Comunication is the most important part of a relationship! My husband and I have seen 4 marriages end... All of them could talk to their friends about their feelings and problems but could not to their spouse.

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jws8888: 1 year ago | Last edited at 1:12AM on 1/30/2012

For guys, talking about a relationship is VERY hard. Most guys are not in touch with their emotions on a regular basis and talking about it is difficult. However, if even the weather is hard to talk about, send him an email and say good bye, if he can't talk weather, you are well rid of him.

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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

i dont just want to give up, but damn. i can only take so much rejection :/

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knucklebrain: 1 year ago via iPhone

He does not sound loving at all. If my gf walked away from me while I was talking to her I would feel hurt and un- important. I could not live like that. I would break it off. Your relationship sounds damaging.

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kuntrykutie: 1 year ago

omg. thank you :/ he is really loving, but well i guess ive been defending him long enough! he can be a real dick sometimes!

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knucklebrain: 1 year ago via iPhone

I wish you luck what ever you decide.

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