Is there any way to get an earring without piercing my ears because It seems like it would hurt very bad any new ways?
Yes, you can wear clip on earrings which close around the earlobe with some pressure so as to keep it in place. On the other hand, you can also wear magnetic earrings or stick on earrings. Check out http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earring#Clip-on_and_other_non-pierced_earrings for more tips.
Magnetic ratings from Claires are really comfy and look cute and natural too!
or you could pretend to be a boy
There's tons of great options out there for wearing earrings without piercing your ears. This page has all kinds of options:http://www.squidoo.com/magnetic-fake-and-clip-on-earrings-for-women
magnetic or clip on that's all i could think of.. or stick-ons lol but those are basically just stickers!