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Should you confess to cheating or just promise yourself it wont happen again?

is it wrong too just keep it a secret or should you come clean?

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you are screwed

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totally agree.
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lol well..i always came clean about shit like that,i cant hide that for too lonq..its always better to come clean asap tho,if yu do wanna come clean..but yeah,not sayinq anythinq..would probably have a biqqer consequence rather than admittinq to it..youll def qet points for beinq honest nd open :)

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promise it wont happen again!!!

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come clean. If you did it once you will continue to do so take it from a man that use to but have vowed to myself ever since I had children why wreck a child's life it's been 12 years and counting you will feel better about yourself in the long run good luck

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both.

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I dont think you can come clean, even after all your fessing up. your still guilty.

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Deny, deny, deny.

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Well once my gf cheated on me and she sed it wont ever happen again but she has to prove to me it wont happen again u should always confess never keep it as a secret then its gonna effect u if ur love does something VERY nice to u then u gonna say dang i cheated on him .. he dont deserve this yeah confessing will have conseqences like no trust,no faith or even break ups but hey thts life

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You probably got some bad karma coming your way but who knows,Keep moving ya Ferg. And ^^^^^^^

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totally agree with you.
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Both. Ur bf or gf will come to forgive u easier if u fess up and not leave him/her to find out. But assure him/her that u feel awful and itll never happen again.

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Confession is the only true way to be forgiven.

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confess then promos you won't do it again. if he breaks up with you then he's stupid. think if you were in his shoes. what would you want him to do?

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Actually, hes smart. Cheaters cant be trusted.
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Both. You will just hurt the person more later on if you don't tell them now and hope that they can still trust you

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It might be better to come clean to show you really like the person enough to be honest with them. But if you don't think it will EVER happen the just promise and KEEP IT!!

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Confess!! Cheating is just wrong and pointless

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You can confess but it won't be pretty, you might end up loosing you're relationship because of it. However that saying "once a cheater always a cheater" seems to always be correct.

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girl you need a reality check. this isn't something yo can just make up and wish away, and what makes you think that the person you cheated wit won't open his/her mouth? ill tell you that my boyfriend drank a whole bottle of cuervo and half a bottle a svedka (tequila and vodka) and kissed my best friend, they were WASTED. i beat the shit out of him (he has scars from my ring). and although we stayed together, there is NO trust. every day is a struggle. you don't deserve to be in a relationship if you can't even be true to your partner. why don't you grow up and break up with the person before wrecking their confidence. my guy made a drunken mistake and hes still paying for it, you went out and consciously cheated on your significant other and then have the audacity to ask an online community for guidence. i am thoroughly sickend, how disgraceful.

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Either way its going to come back to get you bc if you say somthing that person will always have that in there head....and if you choose the other way karma will get ya. lol

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