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Ok, this is a long story but to make it short, here it goes, there's this girl I just love her a lot, I just think about her all the time, I can't focus on anything, literally I'm just in love. Ok now here's is the think, she knows I like, and I also know that she feels something for me, now the hardest part of all this is that she was the gf of one of my friends, that's the reason she doesn't do anything, but was interested on me before, talking and texting, and hanging out all te time, but she changed suddenly and now she's just avoidin at all, I know it's because of hi , now I feel I'm losing her, cause I know she had a feeling for me but I never told her
Should I still ask her out, because anyway she's gettin far from me? Or what should I do, maybe ask her what's going on?

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make HER a sandwich

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Ask her out before it gets too late!

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dude go for it ask her out :)



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Was thinking on do it on valentines day, but since shes gettin far from me, I think by that day will be too late
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ask her out before another guy realizes that he likes her, your gonna miss your shot. just go for it, everything happens for a reason.

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That's a lot of drama, dude.

Just take her out.....

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go for it. this mirrors my situation and my advice is nothing ventured nothing gained

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go for it before you regret it

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Find out what's going on with her then ask her out at the right moment :)

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Yeah I really think I should ask her why she has being avoidin me all the time, because it really makes no sense, she was all the time texting me and, from a day to another, everything stopped, and she doesn't want to hang out more, when before she used to call me and ask me to go her home
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I agree its better to tell a girl how u feel. They are usally feeling the same way

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Nahhhhh... JK

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Go up to her and tell her u need her!

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well i have been in this situation before.i wouldnt ask her out yet. i would try to do or say something that will give a hint that she still likes you,then if u get a postive she still does then ask her out.you wouldnt want to ask her out and get shoot down and hurt. exactly what happend to me.

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I do know she actually likes me, but she stopped showing interest on me, and I know that I should asked her before, when she was really interested, but know she's not, should I still tell her all i feel and ask her out, or jjust ask why she has changed?
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well...looks like she is loseing interest in you so while you have the time i would tell her how you feel and ask her out.
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Was thinking on do it on valentines day, but it may be too late, should I do it tomorrow, but I'll see her just for 15 mins
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sure go ahead dont want to lose time like i did:P
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Tell her how you really feel!

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Yes always tell her how you feel!

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I will see her tomorrow, but it will be just 10 mins, should I ask her out in this little time, or it would be better if I just do it other day when she has time
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Just wait you will know when the moment is right :) good luck
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yes

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Yes you should ask her out asap be for it get to late the longer you wait you are giving someone else a change to still her heart

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How do you actually do it if u have no time to tell her, and I'm not a text guys, so I would like to her face by face, I was gonna tell her on school but I would be 10 minutes, before the other class starts, will it be enough time
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i dont know, just saywhat you feel.
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Tell her before it's too late! Don't look backache and regret it!

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Ill see her tomorrow, should I tell her, cause I was thinking on ask her out on valentines day but I think will be too late, or I'll do it tomorrow, but I just see her for 15 mins
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It would be ADORABLE if you asked her out on Valentines Day. But talk to her and find out what is wrong. Don't tell anybody about your valentines day plan! Bring her a gift. Chocolate, flowers, etc.
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I'll tell her on vday, for sure, tomOrrow I'll ask her what's going on, is there a nice way to ask her that, cause I just don't want to be rude, neither make her feel bad, but I know she won't tell me what's going on, she would just say nothing
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Just say something like, "is everything okay? We haven't talked in a while. And I really miss you!"
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Do it before it's too late! If you love her that much, you should go for it :)

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Was thinkin on telling her on valentines day, but it may be too late, or should I just tell her tomorrow when I see her
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Tell her when you feel it's the right time n_n Good luck!
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