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What's the best way to get your ex back when they are thinking about dating someone else

my ex and I broke up about 3 weeks ago she slept with him 3 days after the breakup! she has been hanging out and been being taken out by this guy since we broke up! I love her so much and I told her all about how I love her so much but she says she wants space and wants me to get over her so we could be friends( which I could never let happen I love her way too much) I want to know what to do to get myself back into her mind before she starts to actually date this guy or should I wait more

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The best thing you can do is that you don't see her, phone her, text her or in any other way communicate with her at all for some time (or minimize it at least!). And that means basically as long as it takes until she has had some air and maybe (hopefully) started thinking about you in a different way.

However when she contacts YOU then you must decide wheter she now is interested in you in a romantically way or just wants to make contact. In the just friends way you DO NOT have time for her. You are too busy leading an exciting lifestyle etc. That's the picture you want to get across.

Let her be with that new guy and ABSOLUTELY get together with other girls yourself! There's an abundance of girls. Now I know that feeling of "she's the one for me" but honestly there are so many girls that you just haven't met so you can't possibly ve sure about that. It is crucial that you get over her yourself so that you don't need her anymore. Only with that mentallity you may ultimately be able to get her back. Chances are that they'll brake up if they even come together after some time. Now the only way that you'll ever get her back is to show her that you have changed yourself somehow since you were together. That would give her a reason why she should be together with you (woman need that to somehow rationalize their actions to themselves). Use this OPORTUNITY to develope a better more confident etc you.

That's the best I can give ya, hope that helps.

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That's actually alot of my basic plan I want her back so much and I know she loves me too we have Bern together almost 3 years I think she is just caught up in some feelings with that guy and im probably just gonna give her time and when I feel ready I will reestablish contact and she will see the all new me and if I know her she will love it
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Nice, I hope it works out for you man.
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Move on she has. Sorry hard to loose someone you love. Maybe later you two can work things but for now don't sit idle waiting for her to call. Let her have her space and start enjoying yours

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I have a German shepard puppy she isn't as great as you think

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Think. Respect. Trust in true love means alot. Could you still have these after what she has done. A future with a partner means these words not just love.

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Once her mind is set to for this guy then I don't think you have a chance. If you were a jerk to her then she'll definitely take the opportunity to mend heart from the break up with another guy that she really likes but I dont know the situation between you guys so goodluck

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You need to move on. I know it's the last thing you want to hear but you can't make someonelove you the way you love them. Go out. Date other girls if in time you both decide to try n work things out together then fine but you both have to want it there's nothing u can do to change her mind that's how she feel you need to respect that

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I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple of months back. I really love her and want to get her back. Its been about 4 months since we broke up. We had a fight and she said she loved me a lot before the fight and after the fight she said she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. I need really help to get her back so i contacted a spell caster on the internet called Dr.Aloma and i explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me and guarantee me of three days that she will come back to me,to my surprise the third day she come back to me and now we are getting married soon.i just want to say thanks to Dr.Aloma for helping me to get my ex girlfriend back to me and i am totally grateful.just in case you also need help you can contact him on Email alomaspelltemple@gmail.com he can also render help to you if you need him for help.
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