I agree with both, sometimes my husband will tell me I hurt his feelings and it usually turns out he took my words differently than I meant them. Talk it out, if you can't talk to your spouse about your feelings, who can you talk to.?
If your wife is hurting your feelings, it is always a good idea to let the person that you are married to know how you feel. You do not have to be mean about it to start a fight but sit her down and talk to her, tell her how your feeling.
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Look, talking to her and letting her know how you feel will not start a fight if you don't raise your voice or hurt her back in any way. Just tell her that you don't feel so great when she says "blah, blah, blah" and I would like you to stop because " blah, blah, blah". Then see how she responds. ( When I typed blah blah blah that means the reason in your situation.)
Why would letting ur wife know ur feelings start a fight? As long as u coming at her respectfully, like a man should, theres no reason why you can't have a grown-up, married folks conversation about how shes making u feel. If she has love and respect for you it should be no problem but you def gotta let her know how u feel...if nothing else she'll respect u for it. Good luck!
Tell her how you feel, if it start's an argument, then she has a problem, and she won't change, also she may be doing it on purpose instead of by accident. If it's by accident then it won't start a fight when you tell her.