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All I do is think about him! Help! (read description!)

okay, There's a guy in my class who I really like, and he likes me too.. and we've been always talking at school and we have great times together, so then..... I told him that I really like him and I have for a while and he said he likes me too.. so then I asked him if he wants to be a couple. but he said he doesn't know because he's always busy in the week. and I said we don't have to go on dates, if your busy but we can still chill at school and stuff. He is being to hesitant!!! What's going on??! He's on my mind 24/7! I love him !

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It's great that you brought it up but maybe too soon to push for an answer. He's hesitant because you're putting him on the spot. My suggestion is to tell him to think about it and then continue to make plans to spend time with each other. That will give him a chance to get used to the idea and a higher chance he'll say "yes" the next time the subject comes up.

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He is hesitant probably because he is not ready to date and he wants to be friends or he could be involved with someone else. It could also be that he wants to concentrate on his studies and he does not want to lose focus.

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He is probably just nervous and maybe he doesnt have much experience talking to girls and dating and stuff, you should give him a little bit of space for a couple of days before you aproach him agin and ask in a polite and non threatening way if he would like to be your boyfriend.

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