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I'm going out with a guy and i love him to death but my parents don't let me date I'm 13 what should I do?

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Ignore Novalink.
I fell in love at age 13. Years later I am still in love.

But think it over. Are you really in love with them? How do you love him? Why do you love him? Answer this.

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yes, Novalink's answer is "pathetic"
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I think the best thing to do will be to talk to your parents. Tell them about your feelings towards the guy. It is also important to listen to what your parents think about the whole situation. Weigh both options, your feelings and your parents' advice and go for the weighty and realistic side.

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I agree, talk to your parents and convince them, I also had to convince my parents when I started dating a 26 year old when I was 17 and I got away with it, I just wanted to see If I truly loved my husband because I was so confused because we fought once pretty badly at the time and It made me think twice but I know now I can never leave that man. :)
Love is love, no matter what age you are at it does not matter!
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Love. How are you in love with a person at age 13? You don't even know what true love is. Seriously. If you "love" someone at this age... pathetic. Just wait until you're in High School. You cannot be in "love" with someone. You like them too much, but not Love much.

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YOU are pathetic age generalizing her, I started loving a boy when I was 2 years old I actually stayed with him till 9th grade, we ended up seeing other people because in high school that's where I met my husband

Don't age generalize it makes you look like a jerk
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Shuutup u don't know wat love is people can be ^in love at anytime
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Wow pathetic? Come on man give her a break she can call it love, it might just be love. So shut up.
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I understand where your coming from and I agree
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This is true I'm 13 and about a year ago I learned what love is.
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@Novalink..love is an emotion that we are born with..to say that a 13yr old cannot be in love with someone is ridiculous...a 13yr old might not deal with love the same way an adult would but they certainly can fall in love
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Talk with your parents about it. Dont listen to generalized answers like novalink's.

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Love can't be restricted to an age group, but the younger you are, the more you should explore each other as people. If you think love conquers all, prove it, put him through the ringer, make sure he and your parents feel that strongly. Let you parents get to know him, study his qualities with you and others.
Just don't DO anything you think will MAKE him feel the same. Love is mutual, and if he isn't willing to go to hell and back just to see you happy then move on. It will hurt, but you'll grow, you'll learn, and you'll find a damn good guy. Be open with your feelings, don't let that good one get away ;)

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I think it is best just to forget about it...if your parents don't approve it..at least till your older thats what I had to do

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first of all if your not even 13 I don't really think it's your place to tell someone your in love with them or to be that madly in love. Your so young and innocent my parents won't let me date until I'm 18 and I'm fine with that, because personally I'm not ready to fall in love then get my heart broken

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don't listen to yo parents just go ahead nd go out with him..

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You're 13 & you live him to death? Ya sure about that...? You're so young!

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