Jealousy comes from insecurity. If you are insecure about the guy, you may have reason because of intuition. If you are insecure in general, you need to be open with your guy about your jealousy without blaming him. The way I see it is that we cannot control another person but we can take charge of ourselves. If you are letting these girls get to you, you are allowing them to control you. You must take charge of your feelings and work to keep others from controlling you
To what extreme does your jealousy show up? No one wants a " Fatal Attraction". There is healthy and normal jealousy that can be flattering to your partner, but if it's over the top, it can be a huge turnoff. Extreme jealousy reflects your self confidence , you need to do things that builds your self esteem that strengthens your confidence. Now on the other hand, if you have a partner that is deliberately trying to make you jealous, get rid of him he's not good for your self worth, you deserve more than that.
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Last edited at 7:38AM on 2/4/2012
I try not to get all worked up in all the girl on girl drama. If you are jelous of them then your just saying "your better than me and I know it." just remember that your gorgeous and be you. and if anyone has a problem with that then ecnore them.