Wow! That's a lot of money! My question would be, is it set up through the court system? If yes, then it sounds like they are not doing their JOBS! If no, then you need to go see DSS! They will go after him & bring him to court to start paying support & bring up his back debt to current status at no cost to you! Zero cost to you. I live in S.C & the county in which I pay child support through the Clerk Of Court has zero tolerance for getting behind. If you get more than 5 days behind, they will summon you to court to find out why you are in Contempt To Court. If you are not to concurrent when you see the judge, you go to jail. Not to mention that you get fined no matter what. Fines range from 250.00 to 1000.00 Call DSS. They would be doing a man hunt on him from where I from. Zero Tolerance!
There isn't a official "Deadbeat Dad List". Someone should start one though. If he owes $13,000.00 in back child support, turn his information over to support enforcement. They will go after him and make him pay support. The children are the ones who suffer.
They only make absent parent pay support if they can find them. But unfortunately even if there is an order to pay support and bug the child support enforcement offices you dont always get the support paid. My daughters dad has paid a whole $500 in almost 9 years. They can't seem to keep up with him and for some reason I can't even get a warrant issued for non payment. Good luck to you.