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Should you believe what a girl says about herself or believe others that tell you about her. even if she keeps lying to you.

i like a girl and we had some problems in the past but were all right now. but she keeps on lieing to me about everything. but she says no. should i believe her or others that know her really well. and when i tell her these things that others are saying, she says it's not true. she likes me too. we want to go out but she doesn't know she says.

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Liar liar liar......you described your relationship as " ok now ". No no no you are not ok! Habitual liars lie in the moment just to satisfy the person in front of them. She's afraid of losing her boyfriend, so she lies to you. This is not ok. You must move on. You need to be with an honest person. All throughout your life and with everyperson you will meet, honesty is the most important quality a person can have. Mean what you say, say what you mean but always honest. You will never be able to trust this girl. She has betrayed that. This relationship is doomed

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I agree with that, but I don't think the relationship is "doomed", I think if they work at it together they can become stronger and last. I've been through the lying, and we've both worked through it and love eachother a lot. I also disagree with the "you will never be able to trust this girl", it just takes time, even if it's a while to gain trust back. Unless he really doesn't feel like trusting her again, that's his choice, although if she keeps lying repeatedly than it's understandable that he'd move on. But I think if they try hard their relationship will work out
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You should believe your girlfriend because she's the one that matters most to you. If the others meant a lot to you, then you'd not be with her, but rather your friends. If you don't trust her, then I'd advise you to investigate on your own and get convincing evidence that will prove your girlfriend wrong.

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