Well you always want to make sure you show who you really are and to never lose who you are. Then you want to be honest with each other. Agree that no matter how upset something may make you feel, that the other person should be able to come and talk to you if something is bothering them. Take things slow. Taking things slow allows you to really get to know the person you are with. There is no need to rush because time will always go by at the same pace.