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What do i do if my best friend seem to not care about me anymore everytime we pass by each other yet seem to throw away all the memories?

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hey your not alone,,I'm going thru the same thing as u are right now,my best friend is been ignoring me for the fast few weeks,,shes the one i need right now in my life more then anything,,but try talking to her and sending her text msg's tell her y shes mad and whats the reason she's been ignoring you,,maybe one of your friend told her something or she heared something like you said that somebody told her and thats not true,so try to see her or text or call her and have a convo with her.i hope this helps!

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Sorry to hear that you are going through this as well.
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yeahhhh i did it.. :/ But urrrggghhh, she seems numb already.. :( And yeah i guess at the moment ur right and she removed her trust on me already. It's just so sad that after all the memories and stuffs, she's that way when i'm trying my best to be near and make our friendship closer than ever.. :( I don't really understand her now.. :/ But of course i still like to be her bff..
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and btw, how's yours going?
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mines going bad,,she knows i need her in my life more then anybody now,she knows am going thru a hard time and shes the only one that can undrstand me right now but she's acting like she dont care and shes acting like i was never there for her and that am fake,,i was there for her all my life, i'v done everything for her that she ever wanted,i'v even lost good friends cuz of her cuz i'v taking her back even if she was wrong sometimes,,it hurts when somebody like that just ignores you for no reason or even for the stupitest reason,,A TRUE BEST FRIEND WILL NEVER WALK AWAY FROM YOU NO MATTER WHAT,thats how i was with her but now i know that shes not worth my time ,its hard its not eassy but i found few other GOOD friends and there here for me more then here now,,so pink_crystal you'll be fine hun just find some good friends and trust me you ex bff will sooon or latter relize wt she lost,,it seems like my bff and ur bff were fake and now we KNOW..they'll run to as soon or latter hun and relize wut they'v lost,
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elizabeth3211!! We have the same exact situation!!!!! :'( Its soooooo sadddd that she didnt even think of the things ive done for her.. :I But ohh well, i gooooo with youu.. Thank youu very muchhh.. Ur soooooo right.. xx Will rise upp together and recover.. Dont worry as well.. We can find the ryt BFF for us deary..
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You might have wronged or offended her without knowing it. You should talk to her and determine why she doesn't care about you anymore. Tell her why the relationship is important to you and why you want her to care about you.

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what if like i already did yet there's no reason and i seem to think that she's tired handling the friendship?
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am sure there's a reason that she's mad at you and she dont want to tell you,try talking to her more to find out the real reason.
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Someone told her something false.. :(
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As people grow & mature they change(not always for the best) & they make new friends & acquaintances. There's probably not a lot you can do but let it go & find a new best friend. It hurts when you lose someone but doesn't sound like this person is worth your time. Friendship is based on trust,loyalty & equality & it sounds like all that is gone. Sorry, good luck.

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Thanks!! :)) I guess you got the answer i am looking for.. Maybe it's the end of having her as my best friend.. :'( Though thank God our paths crossed even if it's just a little while.. Thanks!! This helped me a lott!!
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You'll be okay, Pink. Someone will be very lucky to have a BFF like you....
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Greatt.. Hope so.. :/ Well thank youu very much candybar.. :))
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"though thank god our paths crossed if only for a little while". What an absolutely mature & wonderful way to think. She's the one that misses out in this instance as you are fabulous. Don't waste anymore time on someone that doesn't deserve you :)
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You guys have my vote, great advice
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Thanks Bubb..
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Thanks a lot Jucks.. :)) You're a great advice giver.. :D Take care!!

Thanks Bubblious.. :))
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People change. I say you should talk it out with your best friend.

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Ohh well.. I've maked up my mind.. Thanks!! :))
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Sad way to end the relationship, but it sounds like she needed to grow-up and talk about it instead of acting like you don't exist. Some people don't know the proper way to communicate. Sorry this happened. It's best to move on,you deserve a real friend.

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yeahhh.. So true.. Thank you very much.. Take care!!
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You too! : )
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