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Go to school and after school come to home, stay in bedroom everyday. it's a good thing for live in social?

in the morning I go to school, after class i come back home. My friends call me to go out with them, i never go . i like staying at home, watching TV , sleeping,alone and something I read a book. i always do that every day. sometime I feel i don't know every thing that happened outside. I am very lazy to shopping and go for a walk. this is a good habit ?, to do that.

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Not everyone is alike. If you enjoy doing what you are doing, you do not need us to answer your question. Who is to tell you it is good or not.? With that said, i will tell you life has a lot to offer. To have friends you have to be a friend.One day you might want to try something new, but if you don't agree to go now, you might lose those who once wanted to be friends because they gave up on you.
If you like reading, great. You will do well in college but remember, one can be a lonely number.You might just try something new just to be fair to yourself. You make the choices in the end tho.It is not wrong tho,,being alone or not..it is a choice..

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well said and written! and good advice as always! have a great Monday! a thumbs up indeed! :)
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thank you..and to you also :)
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YeAAA! :)
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Thank you tonifich so much.
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you're welcome Sngourn:)
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I have 1 friend in the whole world and I'm fine with being kinda anti-social. I guess you are too. It's fine, just ignore the people that say you need friends. It's a bunch of self esteem building BS.

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It's better to have one REAL friend than a hundred FAKE friends. But having NO friends can lead to depression. Humans are social animals, even if you think you're not, you still are.
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Kinda sad. Go out and have fun with your friends and make some good memories

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Yeah, what HE said! ^
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nice^^
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If you keep saying no, some day your friends will stop inviting you. Get off your lazy butt and go have some fun. Introversion can turn to depression. Live your life, if not you'll be looking back at this as a major waste of time.

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It sounds like you have fallen into "the routine." Granted, we are all creatures of habit, but we also have the ability to break out of those "routines" and start others. Take jogging every morning.. now, this is not a routine for everyone (not for me) but I know my sister does it. If she doesn't go to the gym, she freaks. Take that idea and stamp it into yours. You can substitute what you do everyday, to bide the time with something else. Another example... My husband and I drink smoothies every morning. This was a health habit I started almost 17 years ago. Now, if we don't have it, we freak! See, take your homework, you know you have to do it, so do it outside with sunglasses. If you take baby steps, you may find other people will open up and you can too! Give it a try! Have a great day!

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That just makes good sense, MerlinNme. The good thing about being outside is: That's Where You'll Find Other People, if they're doing nothing more than walking or driving down the street. There's nothing more entertaining than 'people watching.' Those who like being alone have good reasons to support their beliefs, but you and Toni are showing Snguorn that there's an education to be found in some sort of social activity. I like to read, too; but have written a little, I know that those who write do so from experience and much study. Those "out there" don't have to become best friends with Snguorn, but there's much to be gained from acquaintances and networking.
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YeAAAA! barbarabliss! thank you for the vote of confidence and to Snguorn ... as I hope he understands that part of growing up is interaction. Interaction with other people is so important to develop a sense of who you are and what you would like to become. It's amazing how the you (a general "you") will find you are not a bad or disfunctional person if you pull your mind off the "screen" of t.v. and open it to the people! Thank you again barbara! I hope Snguorn, tries to expand his dynamics. You are a good person and reach out and touch life!
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TY M.....life's too short to spend it entirely alone. I know a few older (really older) people who didn't bond with others in life; now they're all alone...no friends, no family who cares. Everybody needs someone sometime.
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YeAAA! and Take Care tonight! And I know, I'll see you in the future! :) Happy! happy!
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