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My wife left me last year after 10 years, will I ever get over her and be able to love again?

also, I have 3 children and have a number of medical issues. can a women ever love a man with all this going on? my fear is that I will be alone the rest of my life because of this.

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Regardless, of you and your wife's relationship, you guys have 3 kids together. So no matter what y'all have to get along for the kids, well until they turn 18yr.I think you will come to find out there are women out there who can love and be in a relationship with you and this separation could be a blessing.
My advise to you is focus on you and your kids being happy with each other and when your least expecting it, love will find you.

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HI beatledad it does take some time to get over a ten year relationship, but it will happen. The time it takes is different for everyone and I imagine since you have kids with her you still have communication with her that might draw that time period out a bit.

There are definitely women out there who would love you even with medical problems and children. You just need to find the right one. Try getting out and doing things you enjoy doing, you will meet new people and be distracted from the heartbreak a bit. You might even meet some ladies with the same interests as you :)

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No!

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It depends why she has left you.If that was strongly enough to left you after ten years and you was the real problem that she can't endurance and she's still single try to change yourself and back and try to solve problems.If she was problem try to forget her an take care of your children as much as you can.

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Never will love again, simple as that, you can move on though an hook up, have some fun lol

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Firstly, I am sorry that this has happened to you. But secondly, one saying I try my best to live by is this, " we are what we think ". I know right now you are healing, but, as soon as possible, try with everything in you to start being as positive as you want. Sounds simple right? Well, it is, once you start allowing yourself to be happy again. Start thinking about and focusing on the things you WANT, not the things you don't want to happen to you. People think this is bogus. But, think back at the bad things, and ask if you might have even energetically brought them to you unknowingly. Either way, focus on yourself and your kids. Keep smiling, or if you haven't been, start now. Happiness starts within us. And happiness brings us love. Even if it begins with a love in yourself. Keep your head up!!! And never forget to laugh out-loud whenever possible.

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I've been reading your response over and over again because itmeans a lot to me. Then I looked at the picture and noticed it was you. (the hair color question). Thank you so much for you amazingly helpful response. I have no idea why I am still hurt over this; afterall she did leave me for her highschool sweetheart (even though it only lasted two weeks) while I was in the hospital. Things are just really weird for me right now, I'm 29 and have only been on two first dates, have never even asked a girl out and am fighting everyday for my life because of my cancer. I will say that your comment has truly inspired me and also made me smile for the first time in a long time. Thank you so much.
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You are very welcome. Bad things happen to us all, only in different ways and degrees. And sometimes a lesson for us to learn is that there are always underlying reasons as to why people make the decisions they do. As crappy as it is that you are now left to fight this without her, maybe she isn't string enough to deal with losing you? Or to deal with the cancer. It could be fear or down right ignorance and a cold heart. I'm sure deep down you know why she left. And whatever reason she did doesn't make it right or wrong. It just makes it real. Do you get to see your kids often? I hope you do. Love and laughter can cure many things. And of course, as in my first comment, positivity. I don't know you but you are a human being just as I am, and I hope that you soon will find peace within yourself. Try to make the most out of your life. Even reaching out to others with the same or similar struggles. 8-) again, keep your head up high. You have three beautiful children to smile about.
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So do you have anymore questions I could help you out with? This may sound corny, but I kinda miss our little conversations. Lol.
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