The best thing to do is to strike a conversation with you a partner to discuss the issue. Raising the issue and discussing it with your partner will give you a solution. Tell your partner what you feel and the things that make you unhappy to see whether there is any thing you can do.
Put more effort into your relationship. The more you *give* the more invested you will become. Make sure you are happy with yourself first, tho. Your partner is not responsible for your happiness. That comes from within.