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Why do I cry so if I'm so in love with my boyfriend?

I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend and he makes me so happy, but why do I cry as much as I do? I love him, he loves me. Shouldn't I be smiling a lot and laughing more than crying? I don't know why I cry so much and I feel so bad for it, but I love him so much..

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Mr_FadedGlory

They may be tears of joy. But, maybe your subconsciously thinking about what may go wrong with your relationship. Which might make you depressed thinking about ending all the happiness you have now. I think you should see a therapist. There's nothing wrong with seeing a psychologist for something like this. You'd be surprised how much easier they can make life.

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Thanks ynp
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Maybe your just a sensitive person. There's nothing wrong with that. People cry when there happy. :)

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Like what triggers a reason for you to cry? What you cry when you look at him?

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fullmetalrulz

uh because you are sad still

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Tears of joy.

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Maybe your just not happy , Even thought you think you are, My and my boyfriend have recently been fighting and then we broke up for the 5th time. I would be unhappy and mad all the time when we texted , But in person everything was a lot of fun, We got back together now everything is amazing, But i found out, That when you cry in a relationship as much as you say your are, You need to talk to him about it, And make a plan or take a break. That's what i did and now we mad a plan to do things differently , And we dont fight or cry anymore! Try some new things.

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No offense... but LAME. Unless you're a teenager but breaking up 5 times? Any rational guy would walk away from a relationship that always involves temporary "break ups" - that's a huge sign of immaturity.
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"Love Hurts" ...

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I have the same problem and my is because of past issues not because of my now boyfriend, maybe you have the same problem. Sometimes things in the past come up in emotion if we haven't dealt with it and maybe you cry around him because you want to open up.. This is a shot in the dark but it worked for me.

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i have the same problem and it hurts why xx

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