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Is it bad that I have not started dating at 13?

most of my friends have started dating and I feel that might be to young but I am not sure?????? What do you think??????

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Well I'm 14 and I haven't realy started dating yet. And yes you are pretty young so don't feel bad! Start dating when the right person comes along and untill then don't worry about it:)

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It's not bad & you shouldn't worry about having a boyfriend. When you're not looking love will bite u in the butt :P

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Ohh my bad lmao well you'll get a girlfriend sooner or later.
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It is probably a good thing that you haven't started dating yet, especially since you don't feel ready yet. Don't let your friends pressure you.

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13 is still a little young to date. You have plenty of time still. Enjoy school, family, and friends.

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Ericka it might be a guy....

P.s. wht kind of 13 year old has a pic of Jesus on their profile?

Just saying....

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thats rude shr migt be a christian like me
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And me!
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what is wrong with haven a pic of jesus on he"s profile!!!?
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Not saying that I don't but some people might not believe in him so maybe they don't want to see someone else's religion.it's one thing to worship your religion but it's another trying to show it off or force it on other people.
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A Christian that's who. That's a good thing! Jesus is amazing!:)
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So let him be & werry about you not about other people!!!^
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So let himbe & don"t werry about what other ppl do werry about what you do!!!
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I know he's a guy now.. && Jesus is AMAZING
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Who says I am showing him or the religion off or forcing people to that one religion! I am saying that I am a Catholic and I am proud about it!
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nope just wait till ur 18 u will meet the right guy

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No.

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Focus on school and career and real friends will still be there and then you'll know yourself. Dating at a young age is kinda dumb cause how can you know who you like when you ain't even sure of who you are.

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Your very young and should not worry about having a boyfriend now! It's not bad at all! You still gotta worry about yourself not another person too

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Well then just change boyfriend to girlfriend geez! I just read earlier comments and it made me think u were a girl! Sorry my bad you didn't state that in the question
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Haha don't feel bad I thought he was a gurl too :P
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Wait till your older because as you get older you will know want you want if you date now it's just a waste of time and it may cut into your goals

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Well dating young can make you more ready for older ages. College especially. Not all the time is it bad though!

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No! Enjoy your years! Its not like you are going to marry a person you dated in junior high.. Just saying that you will meet a great spouse and live happily ever after when you are ready!


By the way, soccer does NOT suck.

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Well in my opinion it does!
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No it's not bad it's actually pretty good that your not. Don't rush things enjoy your childhood. Dating now isn't a good idea just wait until your a little older.

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I'm 18 and I got my first girlfriend when I was 15!!! Don't sweat it!! Everything will happen on time!(:

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I started at 16, because I chose to wait. The point in dating is to find a person to spend your life with, and you're not going to find that at 13, because you still a lot of things left to discover and change. Enjoy the journey

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no & yes

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No it isnt bad. Its your choice of when you want to start dating.

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Not that bad, and you will meet your 'him' when you are at the right time, dont push yourself. He will be there when you are not so eager to get.

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Sweetie, simply enjoy being you and finding out what you are all about! Without trying to make someone else your priority.
My daughter was not allowed to 'date' until she was 16...she lived through it. There is way too much pressure for young people to date, too early in life. Don't fall victim to '...but it's what everyone else is doing' . That's why young women find themselves in very uncool situations. Dating is a precursor to going steady,engagement & marriage. Hang out with friends, chill, go do with groups, this is much healthier for 13. Bon chance!

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I did

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I'm the same age and there's really no point to dating until you can actually drive. I'm not dating yet either and I dont have anything against it but I would wait until you can drive your girlfriend/boyfriend to dates and stuff. And don't let people pressure you. Wait until you find the right person. While you're young and single, figure out who you are and what kind of person you want to date.

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Well I think you shouldn't let that bother you right now. You're still young and not quiet ready for that.

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Don't worry you'll find the right guy eventually.

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everyone thinks you're a girl! ps I'm 13 and I don't date because it's just stupid right now. I mean it's not like were gonna get married to our bf(or gf!) anytime soon anyway! hope this helps;)

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Ikn!! I am a guy!!!!!
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Not at all! No hurry...you have your whole life to date.

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Don't start dating till you're ready...being 13 has a lot of great benefits, don't be in a rush to grow up too quickly and jump into anything you're not ready for. Have fun being young, you'll never be 13 again, make the most of it. You'll have no problem finding a girlfriend when you are wanting one. Plus, girls might like it that you are 'not interested' and playing hard to get! It could add to you're allure!!

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Thanks!!! I didn't think about it that way!!!
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