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Flawless1: 1 year ago

What can I do about this situation?
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One of my best friends is dating my guy best friend. But she is "unique" I want to tell him that she's just using him as a cover...but I feel bad doing it because they're both my friends. I don't want to hurt either of them. At the same time, i don't feel too attached with her anymore.... and Keith (guy bff) and me are tight, we don't keep secrets from eachother... so IDK what to do :/ Help?

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JohnTyler10: 1 year ago

Secrets don't make friends. </3

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MerlinNme: 1 year ago

Good advice. I didn't want to judge you by your picture.. but you do have a brain and muscles. Really..... Good job on your advice! Well done!

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

haha stfu ;) well true. But u knew b4 me! but what do you think keith will do?

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218CjayH: 1 year ago

You can't lie to either of them, best thing to do is come forward and tell them whats up and how you feel

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

dude she's lez and dating my bff

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218CjayH: 1 year ago

ahhhh i see now, if you don't feel as tight as you were with her before might as well tell keith what she is, and yes it's meddling with a relationship, but would you rather tell him or let him find out on his own

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elisabeth101: 1 year ago

i think that you should tell him and if she gets mad about it shes not a real best friend!!!

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

ig, but its her life u know?

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CompuNinny: 1 year ago

Why would you have a friend that uses people. If she does it to him, eventually she'll be dishonest with you. I could never be friends with a mean person.

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

um because we're soccer buddies and i chill with everyone? but idt i wana chill with her nymore.

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JohnWeaver: 1 year ago via Android

I would tell him but ask him to keep it on low about you saying something

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

true true ;)

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tifebrown: 1 year ago via iPhone

That is a tough situation to be in. Only you can really know what to do either way. Go with your gut. Realistically if she is only using him it will end sooner or later anyway.

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

yeah ikr? but he rly likes her....... ;(

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tifebrown: 1 year ago via iPhone

Not trying to tell you what to do either way, it is totally up to you. But, if he does really like her then maybe the sooner the better, before he gets more attached. Or let it run it's course. She may find something in him she really likes or he will see her true colours.

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

I think i rather pull him back now b4 its too late

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tifebrown: 1 year ago via iPhone

I think that is a wise decision. You are a good friend he is lucky to have you. Your other friend also needs to learn this lesson about using people.

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

:) yeah ikr? thanks ;)

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ORANGEORCHID: 1 year ago | Last edited at 8:14AM on 2/8/2012

Well... People actually use other for "a cover" in this situation? Wow! We get worse n worse everyday huh!!! I'd advise Keith ! The only reason I say this is because if he ends up falling in love with her than he's just in for more heartache..... Tell your friend she gets what she deserves... Harsh realities of life!!! :) have a good day!! OO

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

that's so true, but he already loves her, and shes lez? wtf? haha

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ORANGEORCHID: 1 year ago

Yeah that's not very kool!! Actually... Have you tried talking to your friend n see if she'll man up ( no pun intended) n admit this to your guy friend? It should be her responsibility!! If she's not willing to do so than I'd suggest you tell him yourself! You'd want the same respect or courtesy for yourself right?!!!!!

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

hel yeah. what i'm going to do is get her to admit it to him bcoz i cant put keith through it, and its best if she dont wana b my friend nymore..bc i dont like homos that much nyways. no hate to anyone

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

hel yeah. what i'm going to do is get her to admit it to him bcoz i cant put keith through it, and its best if she dont wana b my friend nymore..bc i dont like "uniques" that much nyways. no hate to anyone

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ORANGEORCHID: 1 year ago

Ha! Like how you say "uniques"!! Well I hope KEITH can deal with all of this, tho I'm sure with having you there to help he'll be okay!!!!!

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

haha if i say the other word, then it gets removed

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ORANGEORCHID: 1 year ago

Very true!! Lol! Unless you spell your words with numbers.. Ie) l3sbian! Lol!

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

hahaha wth? hahaha ur good! hahaha L3$b!an haha

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ORANGEORCHID: 1 year ago

Lol!! Nice!!!

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AGlover649: 1 year ago

Oh girl I have been here before ok so all you need to do is privatly tell Keith that she us using him, but don't let the other girl know give him more info on it let him know how much u really care

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Flawless1: 1 year ago

oh okay that will work

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