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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

If there's a girl I like but she doesn't like like me how do I get her like me?

I have asked her and she said no but very polite and she wanted to still be friends by the way we are 13.

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mrprefect: 2 years ago | Last edited at 8:09PM on 4/19/2011

Honestly the whole be yourself stances is a good one and a great way to get into the "friend zone." However, if you really want to grab her attention pretend that you don't want it. A good way would be to give her attention then suddenly withdraw that attention and give it to one of her friends, preferably one of her ugly friends. Invite her friend to do stuff and of course this girl will start to tell her about it. Bottomline she will eventually start seeking you and not the other way around. A good number of women like a challenge and it is my experience that if you drool over them there is nothing for them to "win" and they will not be interested. I know, I know I probably will get alot of flak for this comment but it is the truth. However, you need to get a girls attention/interest before she can get to know the real you. noble no, the truth, yes.

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elaine09: 2 years ago

You won't be able to make her like you. The best you can do is to be yourself, be friendly and don't come on too strong. She won't like it if you are smothering her. Be her friend and see what happens from there. Later, you may find she changes her mind about you.

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mrprefect: 2 years ago

I can tell your comment came from the heart and I am sure you ment well. However, I am smiling to myself because I think you are giving this poor kid the typical be "friends and see what happens advice" that is to be expected from a girls perspective. I feel doing that will torture this poor guy by making him be this girls friend when he will always wants more. At the same time this girl will probably feel great about herself thinking "this guy totally wants me, look how much attention he gives me." Thats why alot of women go for the jerk who treats them like crap rather than the nice guy who really cares about them.

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

Thank you but I'm not sure what you mean mrperfect

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bibob0805: 2 years ago

You are correct mrprefect. But their age is also very young, a lot of growing up to do. In 2 or 3 yrs from now, yatww might become a stud and all the girls dig him. Then he can turn down this chick and say to her, you had your chance sweetheart.

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mrprefect: 2 years ago

Agreed and to note I did not tell him this so he could be a jerk and treat women badly, that is not cool or classy. However, I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful talented women who I had to first get her attention. Ps: Also being a guy I think this advice actually applys more for men.

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bibob0805: 2 years ago

No you didnot tell him to be a jerk, I think I did. The important thing is that you show the real you now that you gained her attention. Yes we have to do attention seeking ploys to get noticed.

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bibob0805: 2 years ago

When these kids ask for advice, it seems they don't reply to the responses. At least a thank you would be appreciated. Let us know you are seeing these replies. Come on man! We are trying to help you out.

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

When u said I would turn her down that made me a little angry because I would never do that.

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

Ok I guess you guys do deserve a thank you
So THANKS for the help

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gammarayburster: 2 years ago via iPhone

You dont buddy... You move on =D ppl arent prizes to win over. Its their right to choose who they want to be with. So the best thing you can do is try to move on bud... Ull find someone else =D

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

No i won't find anyone else because she's special

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fernybaby: 2 years ago

hoho process is needed, dont rush

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

I know that
I knew that when she said no

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Metoolman: 2 years ago via iPhone

What I've heard works is to start by becoming friends. Get to know her before anything. Most of the time there's one person in a new relationship who is more attracted than the other, (Irrespective of gender) so it may take time for you both to be on the same page.
But remember that sometimes it just doesn't work out... Most attempts to completely change people (again, irrespective of gender) do fail, but keep at it! It ain't over till it's over, after all.

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Yatwwcc11: 2 years ago

Thanks. And we already are friends

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ire1998: 2 years ago

well my suggestion to you, is to be yourself, if she sees the real you she might eventually come around. try to relate to her in the ways that you are both similar. i'm sorry that couldnt help you out more, but remember us girls are rather complicated. good luck

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