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Too many times i feel like God doesn't love me...why?

I feel abandoned by God.It's hard to figure out why. No one is helping me get through this. This dude who might like me is even making it worse by teasing me. The weather has been dreary. I'm losing hope,but wanna get back and try to catch it so I don't have to deny Jesus.

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GOD doesnt leave his servants alone, He's there for you. He says that if you seek Me you will find Me... if you want something ask Me. Are you doing what He wants you to do and forbiding what He wants you to forbid ? or maybe you're just not looking at the right place. im ready to help you my friend TrustMe :)

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Its simple just learn to love yourself and to help others.
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God will never turn his back on u!

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The first thing to ask is if there is something holding u back from God? Friends, boys, spending ur time and money in the wrong things, etc. We have to sacrifice things and let God transform us and we ask for Him to give us hope! Spend time talking to Ur heavenly daddy and in His Word, and ur gain a new appreciation if life! :)

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The lord will never put more on you than you can handle. If the weight is to heavy then fall to your knees and pray

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God will never lead U were the strength of God will not protect U.

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I know it's hard but try not to go by your feelings. Spend time reading the new testament and ask Him to speak to you. Trust in Jesus - He is God and He truly cares.

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I know that god will never put to much on you but, as a kid i was tormented so badly I think I will never know what it is to be normal. I only started to come to grips in my 30's im 54 now and I still am figuring thing out. I think the damage was too much for me to handle as a kid. As a kid I do remember prying for the people that hurt me. I prayed that god would forgive them. But the torment was almost non stop. I was thought of as less then human by my classmates. I tried to be a good Christan as a kid. but now I don't know. I was told that everything would work out for the good of god. well im 54 and have no family, no kids, no career. God has his favorites and god has those that he distances I wish I new what god hated about me and I prayed that he would show me but I guess thats not in his will. We are so small compared to god, why wont he help. At this point of my life I think maybe he is not there. But you might be different than me, god might like you, don't give up because of what I wrote. God might have a plan for you.

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Sorry.. your comment makes me feel God is so sick.. especially in the world I live in where immoral people seem to be getting everything they want.. wealth, whatever.. and decent people are suffering all the time..
It will simply mean God's favourites are immoral people..
Why do God treat decent people like shit in the world? We work for peanuts.. yet those who cheat, steal.. manipulate.. earn like water and spend like peanuts.. and they get everything.. because they are God's favourites??
I don't believe God has favourites that way.. remember, the parable of the prodigal son.. remember, the parable of the lost sheep..
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Many christians will never answer you truthfully from how they feel because they try to believe in God..
So I will answer you the truth here.. I'm answering you because I was feeling the same way.. Many years I wonder the same question, does God even give a shit about me.. prayed many times.. what many others have answered here.. I tried.. I also tried on whether I'm not doing the right thing or whatever..truth is, years has past, and I still feel the same way..
You see.. it's a question whether you would dare to choose the frightening discovery that God MAY not even exist at all to even give a shit about you.. yes.. you will feel..oh no, I may not be saved.. even if you want to be saved, doesn't mean you can't face the real truth about how you feel inside..
else, the other possibility is also.. since you feel this way, and I feel this way.. so who the hell does God really give a shit about.. bet everyone else feel the same way..cont in comment

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I never believe we are suppose to give a shit about God in order for God to give a shit about us.. it's not even possible.. truthfully.. we need to receive 1st.. and if we don't feel it.. no one forces themselves to love.. do you even force yourself to love someone you know, imagine someone who don't give a shit about you? God isn't even visible, how the hell to love, as well.. how the hell to feel love.. right? think about it..
I think all we need to bother about is whether we give a shit about ourselves and the people around us.. not whether God wants to give a shitI never believe we are suppose to give a shit about God in order for God to give a shit about us.. it's not even possible.. truthfully.. we need to receive 1st.. and if we don't feel it.. no one forces themselves to love.. do you even force yourself to love someone you know, imagine someone who don't give a shit about you? God isn't even visible, how the hell to love, as well.. how the hell to feel love.. right? think about it..
I think all we need to bother about is whether we give a shit about ourselves and the people around us.. not whether God wants to give a shit about us.. if we feel we are abandoned.. it's because we are not getting what we want.. just know.. it's not what we want that bothers us.. it's our perspective to what we want.. the end result isn't the victory.. the process to it is.. about us.. if we feel we are abandoned.. it's because we are not getting what we want.. just know.. it's not what we want that bothers us.. it's our perspective to what we want.. the end result isn't the victory.. the process to it is..
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I am 12 years old I felt like that once to I cried then I prayed went to church. I felt ashamed and then one dat I felt it I knew he loved me his love fore me grows stronger evry day I know how you feel and when I feel bad I say god gave his tuffet battles to his strongest solders and I know god loves us an is with us evry day evin if you do not know it

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