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cowgirlup

Why don't my bf stop when I ask him 2 when were havin sex? Is he raping me? I keep askin him 2 stop.

One morning I was really sleepy and didnt want too have sex but he stuck it in anyways. And when I asked him, begged him too stop he would'nt.

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americanempire1898

Yes. You need to get outta there.

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cowgirlup
I love him so much though... But he has hurt me. He took my virginity from me... How can I heal from all this?
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Your first question was much easier. Honestly, I don't know how to heal from that, but it sounds like CoolMom44 is on the right track. What I do know is that as much as you love him, if he did this to you, he does not love you back. That may sound harsh, but you gotta know it. Now move on outta there, because the healing you need to do is not going to take place with him. Don't be one of those girls, ok.
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thanks. He just thought I was scared. Maybe he did'nt understand that the reason why I was saying stop is bcuz I did'nt want too. He was trying too get me too calm down I guess. I don't know but I'm 15 and he's 14...
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Anytime anyone has sex with you against your will, it's rape. This will be extremely difficult for you, since he was your first. You should get counseling, maybe even contact a rape crisis center for help. I feel horrible for you. A similar situation happened to me when I was in college, & I did manage to get past it, with the help & support of good friends & a really great counselor. I will pray for you hang in there & God bless you!

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well he's raped me before this. :( He just does'nt understand he's hurting me so bad. I never wanted too have sex but after he raped me I just felt horrible so I just go numb and give him everything. Thanks for your prayers, it means a lot too me. May God bless you too. Thanks for taking the time too help me. :)
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