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WalterIWilliams

In effect, Yes...... Being nice or kind to people is not wrong or cheating, but flirting is a deliberate act that can lead others on and shows no respect for the one you're with..

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Heck yes.

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Ya

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caitlin.shields21

Well, not exactly, but it is not something you should do!

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fullmetalrulz

well no not unless you actually do something

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yes

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Flirting leads to other things I can't say...So yes it is cheating doesn't matter how you flirt still is...wanna flirt stay single & you wouldn't have to worry about hurting anyone which I still don't suggest

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yep. true.
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Yea I guess!!;)

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Why do you do that alot?
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If you're in a relationship while doing it to someone else

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soccergirl37

Yes, but it's natural we all flirt.

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Not all
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Ya all people flirt
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i agree with soccergrl we all flirt. Sometimes, we do just to be doing it. :)
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Thanks:)
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If you don't flirt than you have problems...
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Crystalix

Absolutely, "yes".

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Yep! It's an extension of desire and acting on those is cheating! Would you like your Boo to flirt around on you?

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yes

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My definition of cheating is purposely deceiving someone for your own personal gain. So, yes its cheating.

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californiared2

basically

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Nah

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what ever yes it is
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Nopee, well that's just how I see it hah.

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lik honestly .. wouldnt you mind if yhur qirl was flirtinq around with sum other quy.?
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hahaha i think its perfectly fine ;)
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Yes

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It is the start

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No?

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Being nice doesn't count as flirting. Being nice with the intention of making a girl think you want her...well that's cheating. For example, Not cheating: "wow I never seen you wear that color of shirt before, it looks pretty nice on you.". Flirting: "god dam you look sexy as hell with that shirt.". and sometimes cheating in a relationship is whatever is breaking the rules in the commitment.

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JustinBieber2480

Yeah

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it depends on what you say

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Anynomous

You should not be flirting with anyone if you are already involved with someone! How would you feel if you knew your partner was flirting with one of your friends? Would that be OK?

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EXACTLY! if you dont care about your partner flirting,then thats another story...
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mangagrl

Uh, YA!!!

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It depends on the flirting but mostly yes.if u flirt without noticing no but it feels like cheating to the person u date

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Yes

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yes

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yea it is , just think of this when your in a relationship, would you like your qirl to do what your doinq.? like if your flirtinq with a qirl would you like your qirl to do da same.?

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Ehh I don't know like if my boyfriend was flirting with a girl you best believe id be mad but some girls don't mind, I don't know why you wouldn't tho. In my mind it's cheating...

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i wouldnt mind friendly fliting but he should make sure the girl he is flirting with knows that he is already in a relationship so that she dosen't take it the wrong way
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It sounds to me like you shouldn't be with the girl you're with right now if you want to flirt with other girls...

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Depends....

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no but flirting is the lead up to cheating, and would not be very nice to the girl your flirting with or your girlfriend, because the girl might really like you and then find out that you are dating a girl already and be heartbroken and you gf want trust you as much if she finds out

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It depends on the extent of the flirting. If it's continuous, like if he/she is always touching another person, laughing with them or messing around with them then i would be suspicious, but unless they are making out or something its not cheating.

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no its not but if your in a relationship i wouldnt do it because it can make you lose your bf/gf

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I say yes.

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Nope, unless they're flirting by like , actually doing something- which isn't "flirting" at all.
As long as you know you're the only one the flirter is gunna do anything with, you are cool. Vice versa if you're the flirter- if your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/partner knows you would do anything with anyone but them, i see no problem.

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no i flirt alot and my bf gets mad but it is not consiterd cheating

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why have a bf if you flirt with other guys... hoe.
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that's really rude she's not a hoe. it's normal to flirt I do it all the time bf or not. so shut up she could be super woman for all u no!
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she is not a hoe it takes one to know one
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wtf shes not a hoe.. and smileyperson12345 and tiffanymdurst is right trust me!
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Wait smiley r u a guy or a girl I'm confused???
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Because u said u had a bf...but in your pic u r a guy??
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nope. not as loong as you dont do anything that ur gf or bf would dissaprove of. :)

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no i dont think it is just dont go farther than that unless your not with someone

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If you're really in love with someone, then what are you doing flirting with someone else in the first place?! People say that it's no big deal, but remember: All problems start small. You gotta learn how to hold back in life - I believe that it's the best show of strength :)

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Well, imagine this. You and your girlfriend are at dining in an expensive restaurant that you decided to treat her to because she is so awesome. There are other hot guys in the room, and you start talking to her about your shared interests when you notice she is looking at some other guy. She says, "Excuse me. I am going to the restroom." and leaves her seat while making it look as if she is headed to the bathroom. However, in reality, she goes over to a hot guy and starts flirting with him.
What do you do? Do you say that she is cheating?
I hope this helps!

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PFFT! NO! I do it all the time!

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thats just wrong v_v
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haha no its not
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yes it is if you truley love the person you are with
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yes technically well i think so just think of it this way if u dont like it when ur girl flirts with other guys then why would she like it when u flirt with other girls? thats always what i tell my ex's right b4 i dump them ( and its usually because of that ) guys think that they can do what ever they want!!!!!!!!!!! well yall cant ok!!

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ya its called leading someone on.

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Well it's leading someone on. And I don't think Girlfriend would like that. They say relationships are all about trust so if you flirting with another girl isn't really a good thing...
It's not a good thing to do!!!! You don't wanna ruin your relationship your in now do ya?

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Well kind of yes because I know this one dude who has a GF and he flirts with me even it I tell him not too. So I think yes that is I mean would you like it if that happened to you.. I didn't think so...

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if your dating someone yes

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yez duh mi man dont do dat

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"yes"

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well itkinda depends on how ur flirting...... and it also depends on ur girfriend or boyfriend

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Yes. How would you like it if you're gf was flirting with another boy!? It would hurt, so I advise you not to flirt with other girls.(;

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no not really

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i say that a little flirting isnt bad as long as it doesnt go any farther than a flirt. but thats just what i say.

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it depends how u flirt...
do you touch or just talk...
we need more info...

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no but it is something youre supposed to when youre SINGLE but as long as you dont do something your not supposed to do its not cheating

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Nope it's just "frowned" upon when your in a relationship.

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no but u never do it because it's worse than cheating

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no way man get yo moves on

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man you are so despret this is ask not a dating sit e so get lost @$$ whole
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No but it is not right you should treat your girl right

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Yes it is. If you are in a relationship you should not be leading someone else on or interested in anyone but the one you in a relationship with.

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it is, but it mostly depends on how far you go.

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HELLLLL NO... well a little it depends
r u all over the person ur flirting with- Yes it is
r u joking around- no it isnt

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yes it is i no from experince

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Well it...it.....yes. Whaen you flirt with someone you arw basicly cheating. so trust me when a girl finds out what youve done. you are in big shit!!!

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yup

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Yes it is in so many ways

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ys and no it all dpnds on th3 girl your dating bcaus sh3 may not car3

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nope

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it depends...youu probably shouldnt though

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if she dont care and you dont touch...

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YES!Emotionally.. It hurts...

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yes!!

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Probably unless you were just like complementing someone on something.

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yes i guess but if your in a relationship then ya it is but u have to decide who do u like better

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yes it is if you are in a relationship

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not technically but dont do it any way if you really like who your with you wouldn't flirt with others

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Yes!

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