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ergh.. my ex still "loves me" as he says and won't leave me alone it's starting to really get on my nerves.... i mean I wanna be his friend and all but he's makin it difficult by askin me to get back together with him everyday.... ugh please help :(

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Tell him it's over and he'll have to realize it. Sorry, sometimes you need the cold, hard truth.

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thanks and true that
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Np :)
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Well maybe you should tell him if he asks again you'll stop talking to him.

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i've tried that and he still sends me constant messages and walks up to me everyday in school so its kind of non avoidable :(
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well that is a dificult situation...have you tryed being a boring person around him like just give short simple ancers and not realy comunicate with him?
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hmmm no but i will do that tomorrow thanks :)
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.... though its kinda hard 4 meh to b boring lol its just not me :) but its worth the shot :)
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lmao good luck
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well i tried to b boring (epically failed) lol buuuut i did tell him not to ask meh again and he hasn't for the past 2 days so so far so good.... :) and then i took megan101's advice so i think tht intimidated him a little more :) thanks alot 'preciate it
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your welcome :)
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haaayz i'm gonna follow uu.... u should follow meh back puhleeeez :D
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ok i wil
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yaaay thank u :)
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In my opinion, you should do what your heart feels is right. If you only want him as a friend, then you have to face him and tell him. Bear in mind that you have to be firm on your stand in order to keep him away.

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thanks i'll try that... htough i'm not very at standing in order :(
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Ignore him for a while (like a month)... I mean do not talk to him. Give him the heads up that it is over and then stick by it in this way. If you talk with him with what he is doing, you are feeding the attention that he wants from you and he will keep it up. He obviously thinks that he needs you and is not listening to what you are really saying.

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thank you
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get a PFA, xs who badger often turn into stalkers or worse, man or woman, get out of it

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thank you but wats a pfa???
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Tell him you will call his mamma if he don't stop

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haha lolz i should try that his mom adores me!!
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Hahaha well that's good;) lol
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lol nice
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weeelz i took urs advice lol and i think it intimidated him alittle and he hasn't asked in the past 2 days... so far so good so thank you bunches :)
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Hahahhaha;)
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yeps its amazing wat mom's can do :)
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It really is;D
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well tell him its over, and ignore him. tell him u rather prefer him as a friend

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thanks
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Don't even talk to him your with me!


RIGHT!?!?

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yes thts right cade :) don't worry i asked this a long time ago and i haven't talken to him sense its okaay i promise
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haayy cade i take back tht last comment..... we're through!!!! :) bye bye :)
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ergh if u go to the one ? were we have alot of comments u'll see an explanation...multiple explanations...im so confused!!!
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