If you know your girl and know what she likes, you can go it alone. However, if you've hardly dated and you don't know what she likes, it doesn't hurt to get some suggestions. If she asks for the moon and you can only afford asteroids, then you've learned something about her. Maybe a model of the moon will satisfy her. If she says surprise me, then go for the standards, but do it with a twist...to surprise her. If it's true love, and you know it, anything you give her will be cherished. Just don't forget! That's the key.
It' very correct to ask a girl what she should like for valentines. By so doing you will be giving her a chance to tell you what she should love to have and at the same time avoiding the embarrassment of bringing something that she doesn't like.
As a female, I feel it's tacky to be asked what I want or to ask what someone else wants. HOWEVER, I know that I hate flowers. I have several suggestions. 1, go with the dumb girly cliche; flowers candy and a bear. 2, ask her and get a straight answer but possibly ridiculed. 3, get her tickets or something that you'd both like. Mine asked me and I'm getting laser tag. It's what I wanted, but it sucked all the surprise right out of it. Hope this helps!
i'd say woman are being overly demanding on this one day. depending on if your spouse is passiv or picky i'd ask her or get something out of the usual like a fun day in the park or something, a road trip. but, this is coming from a single man so.. follow at your own risk lol..
Yes it is wrong speaking from a girls point of view because most girls would want it to be a surprise unless this girl is different from others try to get to know her better than get her what you think might be best for her and who knows she might end up given you something back like a kiss so don't upset her or try to!!!<3
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not really, i think you should really just get her some unexpected flowers (i mean flowers that you dont see very often) and some candy, but if shes the type that expects a lot for valentine's day,,, im not sure...
It's the surprise they really enjoy along with boasting rights. So as long as you're not dumd enough to forget V-day completely it's really hard to go wrong. I know some go wrong though someone has tried to buy my wife's flowers from her today, & in Georgia a judge had to order a man to take his wife out to dinner or go to jail hard choice there. LOL
I dont think it's a very classy thing to do. But if you know the girl well and truly are not sure if she would rather go out to dinner than go to a movie for Valentine's Day, then it's OK. It's really all about your intentions.
somewhat.... you want it to be a surprise, but you want to get the perfect gift for him/her.You should ask him/her and then get something close or similar to that because then he/she wouldn't know exactly what they were getting
no its not i asked a girl that makes everything that somebody says she makes it sound wrong like somebody asked her are we still going to make sleepover plans but instead of that she said are we still gonna do it but when i asked her this she didnt sound wrong
In this day and age where every one wants to be treated equally and everyone has different tastes because of freedom of thought, it's not always easy to tell what someone likes especially if it is a new association or relationship. Something that is everyday and normal to you may be offensive or extraordinary to them. When in doubt just ask. It's that simple. However, if you've been with someone or known the person in question, it proves how little you know them or understand them if you have to ask.
By asking a girl what they want shows you care, but seeing as its for valentines day it should be a gift from the heart, get something meaningful to the girl. Roses are a good gift but dont last that long, a teddy bear with a rose is always good
ask her ahead of time when nobody even thinks of valentines day! like... ask in August so then she'll forget about what she told you when valentines day comes, and she'll most likley forget that you ever asked!
its good and bad, if you ask her she might think that you do not know her well enough to get her one of the things she likes without asking her, or good because you wont get the wrong item or gift for her