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I need advice. i broke up wth my grlfrnd after 1 yr of dating we r n love. Now i really miss her and want her. how can i get back with her?

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Give her a rose , start to cry And say " i'm sorry, i love you"

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The only thing is that flowers don't do much at all because I've given her over 13dozen in 1year
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If your in love then y did you break up? Who broke up with who?

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I broke up with her because I just had a bad day.. Yes I know very dumb but every does dumb stuff
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he said that HE broke up with HER. PAY MORE ATTENTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I give her everything
I've bought her a plasma two iPhones shoes clothes flowers...cath my drift I'm everything for her
I'm in love with her and I feel like she just likes the attention and sympathy that she gets now that we are broken up
How can I make her want me back?
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well for all that you've done 4 her, she really doesn't deserve u. u r WAY better than that. personally, she sounds like a golddigger (user) to me
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Distance yourself. Be sweet and kind but don't give her a lot of attention. Wait for her to message, txt, call you.
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DON'T DO THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!! It'll make her NEVER want u back. and she's a USER
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Have you tried telling her how sorry you are and that you made an idiot mistake? Honesty can work wonders.
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well if you really love her you need to tell her how u feel about her and by her something special then you have to tell her how much you love her and when you get her back make sure you treat her right.

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hun dateing is my game if you want her back just tell her that you love her and that you need her and you don't want to lose her. and depending on what broke you two up and if she feels the same way then she should say yes. and if not then just remember that it probally wasn't meant to be and if it was then try again later because i betcha that in like 30 years from now you'll have forgooten about her if you aren't still together

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Well I really do love her and she loves me but she says that she doesn't think we should date because we do argue a lot
Not like bad just like a married couple
O and she was my first...
I need her back
She is also stubborn so I have to have something more convincing
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Talk to her and see how she feels.

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tell her that u want her back and that it was the biggest mistake in ur entire life

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You broke up with her and probably broke her heart as well. Don't expect to get back together.

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You are an idiot :D.

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Just tell her how you really feel. If you care for her with all your heart, and you tell her that. She might have a change in mind. Be sure to tell her no matter what happens, your love for her will never die off.

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I've read all the answers and your
Comments on them, and it really sounds like she doesn't feel the same way you do. You want her and need her, and I assume you have already told her this after you broke up? If so, and she rejected you, then it's clear she doesn't want, need or love you the same. You sure you want that? Knowing that the one you love, doesn't feel a need for you?
Everyone wants to be wanted. Needs to be needed by someone.
This is probably a root to some of the problems and arguments you may have been going through.
Just think about it, now that you are apart. Don't push yourself on her. If its love, you don't need to "convince her" of anything.
In my humble opinion, when someone screws up like this, says the wrong thing, breaks things off, and leaves mad, when you realize your mistake and you go to call her to make up, the line should be busy from her trying to call you too.

I guess what I'm trying to say, is you are going to be miserable inna one sided relationship. You give her love, and she gives you affection. That will do for a while. But in the long run, when the chips are down, when the gifts run out, when the excitement and newness of your relationship wears off, it's love that remains. And if she doesn't love you, then she won't remain. Make sense?

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Tell her that you love her still and you want her back

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ClydeW

Get professional help, (Minister, Rabbi, Priest, or Counsellor) . It's not normal to discard something and then regret the loss... On the other hand. You are moving forward by asking the community for ideas. Hope you get through this.

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Number1EminemFan

Never buy a girl that much stuff it turns then into a gold digger TRUST ME

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