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over the course of a year, i hav lost a lot of things near and dear to me. my great grandma, my bird, my uncle to prison, my big brother to movin to florida, and the most recent, my best friend to a coma. yes, a coma. lately ive lost interest in a lot of things i used to enjoy because i used to do with my friend in a coma, Mikal Bond. i would wake up in the midle of the nite shiverin even tho i was sweatin because of nitemares about the day mikal was hit by that car that put her into a coma. i hav lately been cryin myself to sleep bc i miss her so much. and everythin seems to be movin way too quickly. mikal isnt in school with us bc shes still asleep since july 2011. an we got 4 new kids who i dislike. an my only friend doesnt understand how i feel about mikal, and shes movin to texas in 2 months. im 14. wen i tell my mom about everythin she blames it on hormones... i need help my teacher says shes worried about me. could it be (heaven forbid) depression?

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I am sad to here all of this. It could be depression. Remember God is just a prayer away. He will heal your struggles. :)

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I am so sorry! It must be hard. I think you should show your mom this question to show her how serious you are! We will all pray for you! Just keep on goin!

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You are undoubtedly overwhelmed with tragedy. Your mental state is too complicated for folks here on this site. You need professional counseling, in my opinion. I am truly sorry to hear of all those terrible things that are happening to your friends and family. I hope your friend in the coma finally comes around.

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there is a chance it could be depression. this is not something to take lightly, talk to a family physician or something. i understand that is just feels like everything is going wrong. i feel like my whole life terrible things have happened to me. always remember you have people that care and you are worth a whole lot. and as for your friend i will be praying for her. everything will work out. even though it might seem impossible. Hang in there.

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Omggg.....that happened to this girl at my school everyone was soo sad i was sad too and i didnt even hang out with her but dont worry about everything becuz i bet ur best friends wouldnt want u to be all sad becuz of her she would like for you to happy and just pray that she will be ok that will really make you feel better becuz always remember tht god is always there!!! :P
Best of luckkk!!! :)

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I would definitely see a trusted adult about this. It could get worse as time goes on.

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U should pray and stay strong

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Yes Taylor, it could be depression. If you miss Mikal, visit her as much as you can, people in comas can still hear you. Speak with her, tell her everything even how sad you are and your troubles, I know she can't speak back, but you may find some relief in that. Ignore the kids you don't like, they don't matter. Friends come and go, even though your friend is moving to Texas you can still be friends and write to each other. Politely ask your mom to listen to you with out giving you answers or advice, ask her to understand you value her opinion and advice, but you would like to go to the doctor and speak with them. If your mom says she won't take you to the doctor have your teacher speak with her. Hope this helps!

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Sweet heart yes it could be depression and guess what that's OK but you are doing the right thing looking for help. make sure you don't give up until you get it you keep posting until you get what you need your teacher is a good person to talk to. I will pay for you and your friend. ask your mom to let you talk to your doctor maybe your doctor can help you call your brother tell him tell everybody that you need help OK don't stop these feeling hurt and they are hard to deal with alone:}

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God does evrything for a reason, trust me, your only 14 u have a long life to live and in tht life u will find greater things in life are waiting for you, even though ur thinkin depression dnt let thoughts get in the way of ur life, have faith, tell yourself evryday tht ur friend WILL come back tht she still be ur best friend, hope, hope tht she'll return to u, hope tht shell be by ur side sooner then u expect, n pray, pray every nite or mornin for her, He listens to us, and he will respond in the most miraculous n sometimes weird ways, remember God does miracles, heres a lil somethin mi mom told mi FROG= Forever Rely On God :) I will pray for u :) <3

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i know how you feel to of my friends died recently and my best friend hates me now and my mother is just always making me feel bad and i dont really get to see my dad but what i do is cherish the moments with the people you miss

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My heart is so sorry for your tragedies. It helps me if I find someone to talk to. You need to talk with someone you can trust. Hang in there. It will get better. God is there and wants to listen

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No wonder you are asking if you are depressed. Only you can answer that question but I would be depressed if I was in your position. Thats me, though. Like I said only you can answer that question. Sorry I cant be more helpful but you are the only one with the answer to that question. :(

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I know this doesn't answer ur question but I want to give u a big hug and be ur best friend. Scratch that, come to my school and u can join my group of friends.

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Sorry to hear this. Talk to anl adult in school that you trust. You can always transfer to Colts Neck High School. That's where I go to school. You can hang out with me if you transfer to Colts Neck High School.

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Pray 2 God & he will help u. & it sounds like depression

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