How do you deal with a boyfriend that's being a jerk?
drop him like a hot potato, because a woman does not deserve to be treated like crap from a man.
I don't know I need more details
why is he a jerk?
Mmmmm...intriguing and evasive. Please provide more information.
Call him out on behavior which you find "jerky"... If he doesn't respond well or correct it and continues to be insensitive, it's time for the cold shoulder.
Break up with him. There are enough good guys out there, don't waste your life with jerks. They won't change. Acknowledge you're worth it and leave him.
Kick him to the curb!