Why would my boyfriend say he wants have a future together and then when we get around his dad act like he doesn't?
my boyfriend is probably the sweetest boyfriend I have he respects that I want to wait until marrige and so does he. he tells me all the time that he sees us getting married and having an amazing future. when we went out to eat with his parents his dad said I have a plan for you guys,you guys are really good for eachother you need to stay with him and you guys go to college together then get married me and Amy ( his mom) has figured everything out for you guys. my boyfriend then said well my plan is she goes to college and I go in the service ( he recently dropped out of college) then when I come back me and you ( taking to his dad) make a suns of anachry gang. I don't know if he was kidding or being serious if he was being serious why would he say that infront of me to his dad and then tell me he wants us to have a future? maybe embarrassment infront of his dad maybe? I'm so confused some answers would be great.