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Why are most guys jerks?

Does anybody know the answer to this question? I know there are some very nice guys out there that will treat you right,but I mean now days they are very hard to find.

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alot of times its because they are trying to seem cool or to get u to like them. but its also just part of our nature. plus guys feel as if they need to be on top. and to protect themselvs

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VvohVKC

I'm not a jerk... but some guys have different actions that make them, them. Some can be idiots, some can be perverts, some can be jerks.

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Yeahh i've noticed. But like I said there are some guys that would do anything for you but then there can be guys that could care less.
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Because a girl hurt them one time so now he/we are forced to protect our hearts from getting damaged again.

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So they have to take it out on a girl for something that happened in the past? That could make them lose the one that they are with..
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They Are Conceded, Self Centered!!

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Im a jerk but not toward girls its mostly to guys that r asses

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Well see I can understand that. I just don't see wjy some want to take it out on the girls.
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so true
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:/ ur just gonna make things worse dude
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not all boys are jerks. well %50 can be but there nice ones out dere. im nt a jerk. dere are a lot of ppl who make big mistakes. like drinking, and smoking. they can be stupid too

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I'm not a jerk:)

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Haha
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because its there nature. they need a personal manual that comes with them I'd say.

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Agreed!
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wtf ur one of those girls who think ur too good for guys and ur more mature well heres new femail dog (u no wat im sayin) ur not n not all guys are jerks alot are but more than half arent
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Did you just call me a "Femail dog" Too bad we can't say it this sounds funny ha!
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wasnt talkin to u talkin to the grl who said i should come with a manual
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Females who say things like this are sexist. I doubt the problem is everyone else.

Fair tidings.

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Hormones and testosterone , plus adolescence means you are crazy already.
Don't worry , We grow out of it sooner or later. the ones who can't seem to grow out of it are just kids in a men's body.

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Guys that Stand out are the outgoing sport players that are super cute and know they're all cute..yeah they're jerks ..but a lot of guys aren't like that!!:)..they're just quieter!!:)..you don't notice them as easily..but they're there!:)trust me!!:)..

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For some of the other people that answered this, maybe you are hanging out with the wrong guys

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fritzmerde

Men have the "jerk" gene, women the nutty gene. So when women act a little nutty, the jerk gene kicks in & we become jerks

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Ah I understand lol
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we dont mean to be, we just don't realize and like someone said earlier, were trying to protect ourselves but instead of pure defense, we use offense as a defense

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But don't they understand that, that could be a big problem and effect thier future pretty badly?
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Um, you cant say that most guys are jerks its just thar they express there feelings. But a lot of people find this offensive . Because the truth hurts. but I completely understand we're your coming from.

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Cause we're a??holes and once we get what we want we stop caring.

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And what exaclty do yall want?
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That's must be true I've heard it a million times
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@baller21 it can be anything from wanting to talk to having sex. From needing a ride to "borrowing" money. We are a tricky bunch, we might look or act stupid because we want you to think that. Guys might hate me for saying all this but I don't give a shit, I'm married and happy. Good luck!!
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hmmm very honest at least
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i dont think all guys are jerks but its the quiet ones you should go for well at least thats what i do

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Yes I agree with you!
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both my guys i dated were quiet and they were the swetest best guys EVER
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Sometimes the girl can be the jerk :P!

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Or it could be the guys opinion
Depends 0.0
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drewdrew2000

I am not a jerk. But some people might be

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I know a bunch that are. But you know I guess that's life for ya
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Yeah...

Probably the same reason as girls...

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Maybe they aren't jerks, you just have bad judgement!

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Maybe you shoul't yell
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I find it very impossible to yell over the Internet....
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Guys think that "bad boy" is attractive and "bad boy" involves being a jerk.

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We believe we are the superior sex, it's an apex predator thing to act like that, I apologize on behalf of all those jerks...

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If it means anything I think you are beautiful(:

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Awh,thank you! :)
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Don't criticize them so much

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Thanks make me feel good

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Guys feel they need to be:
Tough
Swagger
Good looking
And superior
So they try to act like this and some times fail at it and go a little over board to try

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why do u think dat?

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Wasn't you the one that just called me a "female dog"?
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no wasnt talkin to u i was talkin to the grl who said i need to come with a manual i do mean to change ur opinion cause not all guys are jerks
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n if ur talkin bout me well im not like most guys dont judge guys cause of my mistakes
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I'm not talking about anybody in particular. And thanks lol cuz i'm not a female dog till I have to be! Ha!
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lol ok but not all guys are jerks there are realy nice guys out there the ones that stik out are the jerks but if u look close to the ones not stikin out there very nice
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Well I know that there are guys out there that aren't jerks. I just wonder why the jerks are jerks. Just wish people would get off my back about this shizz
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o because they want to feel importent n since dere stronger dats wat they use as a way n then they abuse there power of strenth eich enevedbly makes them a jerk n im not a jerk btw
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I've noticed :)
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thnx :) the only reason dere like dat is cause dey dont realize it and dont try to think bout it
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They are attention hoggers

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Unfortunately, the ones who are jerks are the ones with a loud mouth and so get noticed more. Look for the quiet guys, sitting back and watching the jerks. These are the great guys every girl goes after later on. Get one now, because later they will be gone! : D

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Thank you! :)
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Maybe your name should be ballbuster21! :-) The problem is not that all guys are jerks; the problem is your attitude. Change your attitude and you'll find that you're meeting a lot of nice guys. How do you change your attitude? Ask yourself this question: What makes me a jerk?

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My attitude is perfectly fine thank you. And ballbuster21? Don't get it. Explain
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Be the person you want to find! Everyone experiences the world through their own filter. So, if you think all men are jerks then it's time to look in the mirror and see how you're being a jerk!
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i dont think most or them can help it but i know a lot of nice guys well most of them are like my best friends but still if they get all like a jerks i slap them and say snap out of it your not a female you are a guy so be nice or i will slap you 3 times as heard then they shut up and get all nice : )

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It's because they are guys they had to be jerks

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Because guys nowadays aren't as smart and are more immature. The guys of today walk around with their brain in their pants. Notice how I say "guys" because they are not yet "men" even though they are of age. Foolishness is like a disease, truly.

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they want to look popular but some are nice..............like me

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some are just plain A-holes but others are insecure so they do it for dominance.

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