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What does it mean when a straight boy & a gay boy have an instant connection?

I was sitting in my usual seat on my bus. The boy that I'm secretly crushing on came on the bus, he stopped & we looked at each other for about a minute. As we were looking at each other everything stopped. They say that happens when you meet the love of your life, but I don't think that that would be right for me to tell that we had an instant cdonnection & I don't think he has any idea that it even happened or that i want to go out with him.

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Having one of those "omg,wow" moments is awesome. I'm guessing your crush knows your into guys? If he does,maybe say something to him...ask him if he'd ever wanna hang out. If he says yes,then its probably safe to say he likes you,or is at least interested in getting to know you. If he says "aww man yeah uhh I'm not into guys",laugh and play it off like you really did just wanna hang out,tell him others can be invited too =). If it doesn't work out,maybe y'all can be good friends =)

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good advice
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He's straight, but I'm gonna use your advice.
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The physical contact can be coincidental hence has no specific significance. However, you can approach the person politely and describe your feelings to him for effective response that will get you informed if your feelings are common.

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hes straight... im not sure if he is going to be in love with you.... but you never ever know:) he could be gay and not be telling anyone

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He's straight.
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It totally sucks!!
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yai here ya:( ive had those moments not knowing i could get the person i wanted...
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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Great friends, unless one is not 100% sure of his sexual preference, and willing to consider options.,

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You maybe over thinking it unless he makes a bolder move than a look I wouldn't get my hopes up.

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Ask him if he's comfortable w/ you, and then say "I hope this doesn't ruin our relationship, but I like you"

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That seems a little straight forward don't you think?
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