that's pretty sad what 17 year old freak would date someone who's 13 & what desperate 13 year old would date someone who's 17 I mean your still a kid you don't know much about the world you should be focusing on school homework family friends sports join a band or something he's almost an adult & an adult would want things 13 year olds can't give & there's risk so why take the chance your 13 theres no need to rush girl you have a whole life ahead of you he'll just leave you heartbroken he's not the right guy if he was he would tell you wait which he hasn't so yes it's bad
Yes it's bad. Love knows no age but. Big diff between a couple of 17 and 13. And a couple who's 40 and 33. The first couple has a huge developmental gap while the latter is much closer mentally than the age suggests
Yes it is. You are both still children and do not have a clue what love is. Nor do you understand the physiological changes your bodies are going through and will be going through for the next 10 - 15 years.
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Last edited at 3:07AM on 2/22/2012
maybe a little too young for him. and when he hits 18 he's most likely gonna wanna have sex and he can't with u so he probably will with someone else and u could end up getting hurt. If u don't think he's that kinda guy then it's fine. my grandpas 92 and my grandmas 76 so my grandpa was in highschool when my grandma was being born and they have been together for 53 years
You being 13 and him 17 he is looking for just one thing from you intercourse, he can go to jail for going out with a Minor. Fine some one your own age, you have all your life to have sex don,t Rush It and get yourself into Trouble. Take it from some one that has been there.
I wouldn't trust him, no matter how charming he is and I would stay far away from him... but I also know that a lot of my friends would tell you how sweet you two are and how it's great that you aren't letting age get in your way...
Have you ever wondered why he doesn't date girls his own age? Maybe they see that something isn't quite right there? Look, either he's a pedophile (likes underaged girls) or has severe social issues to want to go get involved with a baby! And since in 31 states the legal age of sexual consent is 16, if he's gotten that far, YOU can get pregnant & HE can be charged as a sexual offender & put in prison! I know its real flattering to have what to you is a man interested in you, but there's something wrong with him. It would be different if you were 16 or 17 & he was 21 or 22, but right now you're too young & inexperienced to deal with a male his age. No, I know you won't listen, but eventually you'll figure it out for yourself. This guy has some serious problems to want to get involved with a 13 yr old. What happens when he dumps you for a younger girl?
A woman, at least 18 years of age should seek a partner one thru seven years older than herself for Marrying. You should wait five more years, think of the things you can do; get a PHD, become a DDS, an MD, Nurse just what ever you do, five more years is enough time for some good in sight into the subject of living with ( the ) man of your choice.
As long as he not abusive, or make you perform sexual favors, make you do drugs drink or feel uncomforabltial having sex is illegal. as long as trust each other and your parent(s) are okay with this but do not do any thing stupid just because you are in the moment
1 year ago
Last edited at 5:59PM on 2/27/2012
well, if he's respectful and u like him, ya, but some mite not approve. because he most likely has had sex, make sure that before you two do it, that u r of the legal age limit for ur state, just google it, in most states its 16. just dont make him the center of ur life, and make all ur decisions around him.
Getting involved with a boy of seventeen when you are thirteen is asking for trouble. He is at an entirely different place in his development toward becoming a man, his body is raging with hormones and he will soon start pressuring you to have sex with him. If you do this, you take all the risks, the biggest of which is that you could easily wind up pregnant and alone at a very young age. You could also get a sexually transmitted disease from him.
Boys who want to date much younger girls are usually very immature and afraid of girls their own age. They are searching for someone who is weaker and more vulnerable that they can dominate and control. This guy sounds like trouble. If I were you, I would run, not walk, away from him as fast as I could.