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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

I'm a bi sexual guy but nobody knows. My best friend who also doesn't know, always stares at me and calls me nick names. Why?

My Friend is not gay he has a girl friend and so do i. But he stares at me for long periods of time without saying a word. It gets to the point where when hes staring ill make eye contact and he'll continue to stare until one of us looks away. He also calls me these nick names not like bro,man or dude. He'll take my name and combine it with something kiddish. and says it in kind of a baby voice i guess. idk maybe im over reacting. But if anyone has any advice or input, please let me know...

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago | Last edited at 11:15PM on 2/22/2012

He might be closeted, and just too shy to admit it. He might be using his girlfriend to cover it up. If you like him, I hope everything turns out great between you guys ;)

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

But then the cover up guy also has a "girlfriend"!!

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Sure, but if they're both bi and they like each other they should be together<3

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alwysdrm: 3 months ago via Android

There should be more people like u. Unfortunately most are mean and cruel to gays/ bi's

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

I whole heartedly agree

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mordredbas: 3 months ago

He might have figured out something is different about you and is trying to see how you react.

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Alaskaman: 3 months ago

I agree; he might be testing you.

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Hey I didn't think about that

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wrathseed: 3 months ago via iPhone

Don't jump to conclusions. Besides alot of guys are just teasers, especially since he doesn't know you are bi

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago | Last edited at 11:33PM on 2/22/2012

Just ask him why he stares... =D well first off I've always feel that people have a set preference or lean towards one gender more than the other; though my little bro is Bi I still accept him. I feel that the "Bi" label is used instead of admitting they are attracted to the same gender.

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jeebus: 3 months ago via iPhone

Judge much??

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

You have been flagged. If you give this guy any more trouble I'll report you. I am sick of seeing this kind of trash on here

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

I'm not judging.... I reported y'all... =D

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Haha you can report someone, but if they did nothing wrong, how can they get in trouble? -_-

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jeebus: 3 months ago via iPhone

Reported us for what, being decent human beings?

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

right!?

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Alaskaman: 3 months ago

Ah I see this was edited so I missed the bigotry.

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

Y'all accused me :'( of nothing... I wasn't judging I said and I quote " Just ask him why her stares... =D"

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Lol yeah at first she said "bi? that's wrong"

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

I edited it to add =D

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

GlitzGal whatev

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

its ok :)

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

Your offensive :'(

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Alaskaman: 3 months ago

Well first off I've always feel that people have a set preference or lean towards one gender more than the other; though my little bro is Bi I still accept him. I feel that the "Bi" label is used instead of admitting they are attracted to the same gender.

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

@alaskaman you do realize you wrote that in a comment not an answer right?!

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jeebus: 3 months ago via iPhone

Don't worry mrsstyles I saw it too! Now she's trying to make you look crazy lol! Nice try glitz

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Sorry GlitzGal :( I really thought you were trying to bully this kid, i've seen a lot of that on here :(

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

Damn. Who are you people?? I want some feedback like that. Just not so nasty. LOL

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

@mrsstyles I wasn't trying to bully him. I am answeing question and feel i should answer it in my opinion...I'm a Christian and feel that it is certainly wrong to be "bi"or "gay". It's a sin. Man should marry woman not woman to woman or man to man. Gay is not how God created us.... God frowns at this.

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Alaskaman: 3 months ago

True but doesn't God love all his children?

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

Hear, Hear!!

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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

LOL wooowowowowo! Glitzgal? relax. I could care less either way its your opinion, thats what i was looking for. via advice...

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

Ok thx

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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

I agree!!! God loves all that believe. No matter what

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

@alaskaman yes he does love everyone he frowns at what people do like being gay he wished they weren't becaus than they could be Chrisians and go to heaven UN like non-Christians and go to the other place.

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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

Thanks everyone for backin me up tho. I appreciate it alot that dosent happen very offten when it comes dwn to someones sexuality. your all strong minded and think out side of the box.

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

GlitzGal I love God with all my heart. I am too a Christian. That is why i love EVERYONE, including gays

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

I love everyone to

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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

And Glitzgal, Are you god? NOPE!!! I believe in god and pray daily. The god i know would never turn anyone one dwn that believes in him. He put us on this earth to live, love and believe. who cares if i dont do it like everyone else dose or everyone else dosent do it like me. nbd!!!

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Amen FoxTrot

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

amen

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alwysdrm: 3 months ago via Android

I think maybe he sees the gay side to u and is curious about it.... True friends get things about u that most ppl dont.

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GlitzGal: 3 months ago

Good answer

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MrsMathers: 3 months ago

Yeah, great answer :)

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

I can see a catfight coming LOL

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TheJerry1559: 3 months ago

Actually, now everyone knows. I think you are both two sails in the wind and waiting for that slight breeze to push you in the right direction. I think if you have questions, you have desires. Make the move. all that can be said is I was fooling you!!Haha LOL

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foxtrot81: 3 months ago

HAHAHAHAH true true never tought of that.

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NubianqueenKelley: 3 months ago via iPhone

He might have peep into your closet

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Tsparks990: 3 months ago via iPhone

I think that god put a man and women on the earth first for a reason. If you want to go through with it go for it but I'm just saying.

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