Mar 14, 2013 ... The anti-pleasure, perfectionist trends so marked in contemporary culture are
holding us back from just living in the moment and enjoying ...
Surrender's about accepting where we are, knowing that we are works in
progress. ... There is no shame in mistakes, just an opportunity to learn and to
grow. ... Excellence, unlike perfectionism, is about lovingly pushing ourselves to
act, think, ... If you can't find anyone like that in your circle of friends, then read
Nov 6, 2013 ... As a culture, we tend to reward perfectionists for their insistence on setting ...
defense mechanism: we reject in others what we can't accept in ourselves. ... you'
re a success one moment and a failure the next, based on your lastest ....
Adaptive perfectionsm is just wantig to be the best because you want to ...
Why Not Give Yourself A Break About Trying To Be Perfect? Written by ...
Perfectionism And Burn-out Are Close Friends. Written by ... Often, we just can't
Aug 6, 2014 ... In the end we agreed to disagree (I think it's just a matter of time; ... So when we
embark on a new project, instead of falling into the lure and trap of perfectionism,
... turns out right," we can do ourselves a favor and decide that flaws or ... their
swings in baseball, college applications and they say—"...
Perfectionism and pressure trigger and fuel anxiety disorders. We must learn to
accept ourselves and what we do. Perfection is not possible in any field, ...
As much as we would like to convince ourselves otherwise, perfectionism is not
about ... I used to think that being a perfectionist was just one of the those things
you said ... We need to do more research, buy more supplies, or learn new skills.
Sep 30, 2014 ... We tend to see the Martha Stewarts and Steve Jobs and Tracy Flicks of the ... But
for many perfectionists, that “together” image is just an ... If you have
perfectionistic tendencies, Flett advises aiming the trait outside yourself.
Aug 28, 2007 ... As a young journalist in New York, I used to rewrite my lead paragraphs ... When
we can't make things perfect, then there must be something wrong .... Just
reminding yourself that perfection is inside of you—even if you do not ...
We can't even believe the photographs or our own eyes any more. As we are ...
We view ourselves in the same, high-standard, need-to-be-perfect way. Unless
we ... If we could just attain perfection, then others would have to love us. Right?